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[–] Moss@hexbear.net 8 points 1 week ago (11 children)

Approaching tasks is so stupidly hard. I can start cleaning the kitchen but then not finish it, even if it would only take me a minute to put something away and a few more to empty the dishwasher. I can take some clothes off of the line, but not all of them. Executive dysfunction is just stupid

[–] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago (9 children)

I'm curious bc I don't know how it feels, so please don't take this the wrong way: how does the executive dysfunction feel in those moments? Is it like a strong feeling of "Nah, I don't want to finish" or does it seem to be an actual mental block preventing you from finishing the task?

Either way, do you feel more able to finish the task if you let some time pass?

[–] CrawlMarks@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think there are diffrent kinds. The one common to adhd is dopamine disregulation. So picture moving a pile of bricks for no reason. Not painful but you just don't want to right. Any task that doesn't give a dopamine rewards tends to be downregulated. So that feeling is the same you get about luandry. So like, I could but my body tells me to not waste the energy. Like, literally anything else is more important to do so don't waste time on that.

There are some people that experience it like the feeling of not wanting to touch a cactus. I don't have much experience with that.

[–] gingerbrat@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago

Thank you for the explanation meow-hug

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