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[–] Dyskolos@lemmy.zip 1 points 7 hours ago

Brothels are illegal in my country.

Wow, in what horrible dark age country do you live? This is the oldest trade on earth, and those are incredibly helpful and needed in a society.

all your other points

You really don't get it. It has nothing to do with my life, my experiences or whatever. It's just the simple logic that getting just sex is ultimately easier than getting love. It might be harder (no pun intended) depending on your laws, your own morals or your net-worth, but still way easier to find someone that loves you.

The external factors aren't important. You might be ugly and poor and whatever, which would make tinder (or whatever people use nowadays) impossible. But even more difficult would finding love be. Of course one shouldn't rape, obviously in a civilized society, but one still TECHNICALLY could. But there's nothing in the world you could do to make someone love you, no matter how willing you're to do anything.

Again, this is absolutely not about personal experience, and has nothing to do with that.

By contrast I live in a blessed world of readily available affection from my friends (who I chose), surrounded by family that love me

That is not really the same kind of love you're talking about. Important too, but totally different. I, for example, have no family (except my wife) and there's nothing I could do to get one.