I think I'm cis but I'm questioning my gender kinda, need advice (lemmy.ml)

submitted 2 years ago by Bicyclejohn@lemmy.ml to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org

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I am very comftable with he/him pronouns. Always was but recently I noticed that while I don't go out of my way to use them I'm also fine with they/them pronouns being used on me.

It could be a phase but I'm not sure. It could also be that I tend to use they/them as an alternative in. I'm confused

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[-] MeowKittyWow@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago

Nothing wrong with being comfortable with they/them pronouns but still considering yourself cis. Labels are useful, but ultimately not important; you are you!

If you want to experiment a bit, go for it! Maybe there's something to explore. Maybe it solidifies that you are cis. Great! A lot of people are rigid with these things, but it doesn't have to be. Do what feels right; labels can come later, or not at all, and that is all okay :)