It’s a damn shame if that toxicity is permeating through Lemmy. Once I really feel no difference between here and reddit on that front, I’d rather go back to reddit unfortunately.

Yeah it's honestly insane. Getting to the point where I think I'm just going to filter out the technology and politics communities despite being interested in the content and in some of the discussions. There are so many over the top toxic people on lemmy. In one of the youtube adblocking threads, there was a guy who said something along the lines of "honestly it's worth it for me to have youtube premium" and he was downvoted and called a paid google employee. Like it's so absurd. You can't say anything that goes against the circlejerk without being dogpiled on. It's behavior that's far worse and more consistently worse than anything I've ever seen on reddit. It's not the first time I've seen stuff like that. I remember all the backlash when sync came out. I like the app and the dev so I paid for it but all these FOSS bros were acting like the dev is the second coming of Hitler for daring to make money for his work. It's exhausting. I hate ads and subscriptions but I need to live my life at some point and just begrudgingly accept them. I can't spend all day seething about it like a lot of people on lemmy do. Again, it's just kind of exhausting reading a lot of threads now. I thought I was going crazy but it's nice to see that other people have similar observations.

Same, not at first but seems like the mega assholes breed here like rabbits.