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submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by Raebxeh@hexbear.net to c/askchapo@hexbear.net

I’ve run across cis women making comments like this way too many times for it to not be A Thing. Usually it’s a reason given for them not being a lesbian. Something like, “I love boobs but vaginas are gross”. I’ve also seen it as a reason to not date trans men, but I feel like there’s something going on beyond standard genital preference discourse and the transphobia attached to that. Can someone explain this or am I just being weird?

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[-] MichaelFassbendersHog@hexbear.net 24 points 9 months ago

This. It’s ruining my relationship.

IMO, saliva is the best possible lubricant.

[-] HiImThomasPynchon@hexbear.net 16 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I am so sorry this is happening to you, comrade. sadness

[-] keepcarrot@hexbear.net 11 points 9 months ago

Wait, what? I thought it was pretty bad

[-] kristina@hexbear.net 2 points 9 months ago

Yeah it doesn't have much staying power but is solid to get things rolling, which is all some people need

[-] D61@hexbear.net 11 points 9 months ago

Coconut oil is pretty solid.

Though I start to have "feelings" when I smell macaroons now...

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