There is an app called Grindr for finding gay hookups. You'll find what you're looking for in no time.
GayBros
By GayBros, for GayBros. Almost everything is allowed.
Rules:
- Remember the human.
- Remain respectful in discussion and be considerate of other perspectives. Trolling and hateful conduct will be removed.
- We are all bros here.
- This is an inclusive community. Trans, queer, and non-binary bros are welcome. Transphobia and other forms of bigotry will be removed.
- Posts with NSFW images are NOT allowed: This is not a porn community.
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If you want a porn related community, check out /c/gaybrosgonewild@lemmynsfw.com. Their sidebar also has other nsfw communities. If you want to see NSFW content, you have to go to your account settings and enable the option to see NSFW content.
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As the other person suggested, look into Grindr. But also know that not everyone is a good person and not everyone is truthful. You should always practice safe sex. Look into PREP and always wear a condom. "Receiving his loads inside" is definitely something you should think twice. I would suggest to not do that, but you do you.