Asidonhopo

joined 1 year ago
[–] Asidonhopo@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago

I have a friend who used to clean with this and it smells horrible

[–] Asidonhopo@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago

All Cretans are liars, this is actually a gadfly.

[–] Asidonhopo@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Any time I see Eno's name I get that MGMT song stuck in my head (in a good way)

https://youtu.be/_f_jaqLLPTU

[–] Asidonhopo@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Can confirm rubbing alcohol can improve your experience with failing phone charge port. I got to the point with one where it wouldn't charge unless I applied a minuscule amount of alcohol around the metal prong in the phone with a shaved down toothpick before plugging it in. This tip is mentioned exclusively for those trying to extend the life of an end-stage phone and I take no responsibility for any fires or harm to the phone.

That said, there were never any problems when I did it and it extended the phone's life maybe 8 months, and after a few months it didn't even need the alcohol. Maybe it improves conductivity or used the charger head to over time clean the phone port. This was a micro-USB charger because I like using 8 year old, $60 phones.

[–] Asidonhopo@lemmy.world 0 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Yeah totally agree, even the most hardcore customer service falls far short of what cops have to deal with fairly regularly. I've never called the cops on a customer and only once or twice has it come close, they have a totally different set of interpersonal boundaries they work within.

I've also never been lucky enough to never have had any issues with cops myself apart from a few speeding tickets, I have usually lived in low crime areas and don't belong to a more at-risk group that gets undue attention. With society changing so much these days I expect things to worsen, police could become more menacing to me or people near me in the future and I find some comfort in studying effective ways of interacting with them, and avoiding conflict with them.

I can respect how hard their job is while having deep concerns for a) the laws they enforce, b) how they are told to enforce them, c) a significant number of bad actors in the departments and leadership, d) a toxic policing culture pervasive in most areas, e) the current culture of gamification of sending the law after people you disagree with, etc...

Occasionally I speak briefly with them in my line of work and have mentioned bodycam youtube to a few of ]them. They seem aware of it and some watch it, some don't, I figure anything that gives them more reason for self examination is a good thing, but I can also understand that some of them wouldn't want to relive work over again on their downtime.

[–] Asidonhopo@lemmy.world 19 points 4 days ago (7 children)

A guilty pleasure of mine is the bodycam footage channels on YouTube, its surprising how negatively/self-defeating some people react to police interactions. I steer clear of channels that have serious harm to the suspects, shootings and whatnot, but my job has me interact frequently with intoxicated or distressed community members and seeing how they process stressful situations is interesting.

These channels are copaganda but still, somewhat enjoyable and some deescalation techniques police use when employed gently have helped me with setting boundaries in customer interactions. I also feel like learning what not to do when interacting with police is helpful for me if I ever get pulled over, etc. Midwest Safety and Lens of Law are two that are more ethically run and primarily use FOIA requested bodycam footage.

[–] Asidonhopo@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago

Easy enough to block the sports communities from your feed if you browse c/all if you dont like them. I say someone set up the sports communities and start posting articles to see if we can get more adoption by the sports folks over here. I dont have the patience for sports but more users is good. Some sports people are obnoxious but some certainly aren't (Bill Bppurr comes to mind) and userbase growth is needed.

[–] Asidonhopo@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

One of those canonical seas, the Aral, is almost completely gone, that dove had better hurry!

[–] Asidonhopo@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago

I've got a 1GB Insignia Sport mp3 player from 2006 or 2007 that I check every few years and still worked last time I used it. Good for audiobooks or maybe 80 songs on shuffle. I got a lot of mileage out of it over the years, lovely little bit of electronics.

[–] Asidonhopo@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Fyi don't do that with whipped cream, you're just asking for trouble

[–] Asidonhopo@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I was going to say if he writes an app and doesn't like it, something's wrong there

 

Basically what it says in the title

I remember reading years ago in some chapter of what I think is a Kurt Vonnegut book, that the Germans have a word for someone you meet who represents who you could become, but would prefer not to, and how that person is significant as a symbol and drives you to become who you should be or want to be.

Did I dream this? What book was it and what was the word?

[–] Asidonhopo@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

I'm still trying to get a hold of my feelings about it but I think it's more that some people treat their own trauma as a kind of privilege, like it excuses how they might treat others. I've had enough experiences with friends, coworkers and customers being careless or hurtful and imo it's an uncomfortable truth that traumatized people can be harmful if they haven't learned effective coping strategies for their own trauma.

I hate engaging in that kind of social triage though and there are a large, increasing number of traumatized people in the world, and it's hard to access the kind of care that would help someone move past maladaptive behaviors that harm others as the result of their trauma.

For myself, at the moment, I will be maintaining boundaries and trying to avoid traumatized people in general, so as to not become more traumatized myself. This is the opposite of how I've previously engaged with people too, I'm consciously trying another strategy. Also apologies for being vague but I think it applies to a lot of situations.

 

I used to occasionally go to unmannedspaceflight.com but it closed in 2024, just found out. It's archived and they would post stitched together panoramas and significant findings, it was a very complete and interesting discussion board. Is there a similar site to this still up and running, or at least a non-NASA site that curates the downloaded images from the rovers and orbital missions?

 

I never used Twitter but wanted to check out the new thing replacing it over on the edge of the Fediverse. Created an account with no bio or profile pic and followed a few dozen personalities that I recognized on there. Half a day later I have 18 followers.

I looked at some of them and they were obvious bots, usernames were random alphanumeric strings, or they were promoting onlyfans, or they were trying to build followings by reblogging popular posts but not contributing anything original or curating in any human way. Others seem more believable and have realistic bios and post somewhat engaging chatter.

Not knowing what the general user experience is, should I consider most random follows to be bots or is it common practice for users to see who follows pages you like and follow other people on that list? The somewhat convincing profiles have me a little queasy thinking of all the AI bots driving us increasingly toward a Dead Internet.

Not sure how long I'll continue but happy to test it out and follow personalities I know from other platforms and enjoy their content, while blocking all of my followers that I don't immediately recognize. Is that standard Twitter/Bluesky good practice or am I not "trusting the process" enough and allowing full access to randos? Closest to Twitter I came was Tumblr circa 2010-2016 and in that time I saw the bots increase dramatically in a way that sabotaged community trust and got quite stalkerish.

Interested in your thoughts even if they aren't directly applicable to my experience.

 

Disclaimer: The Great War caused immeasurable suffering and loss but also Gavrilo is handsome

 

I was going to go with wisehosting.com after Mumbo Jumbo promoted them with an ad in one of his videos but apparently they're in Estonia and my bank doesnt do business with that country.

I've never had a server in MC before, primarily playing solo but have been going on my friend's realm the past couple months and really enjoying it. My complaint mainly is that realms limits render distance to like 16 or so and I'd like to crank it up to 32 as long as client side lag isn't too bad, and I've been told servers don't have the same cap on render distance as realms. We do like to build largeish amateur xp farms and regular redstone contraptions but shouldn't need something huge that can run Minecraft-in-Minecraft or anything like that.

So yeah, nothing fancy, no mods. Maybe 10 total players most we've ever had online at once was 5. What options are popular and known, inexpensive and reasonably reliable? Figured I'd ask on here rather than troll through old redd*t threads looking for people promoting server hosting. Thanks!

 

Regardless of how you feel about AI, a lot of people have been posting videos about this so you might be interested in seeing it.

Worked on desktop on Chrome, some phones might run it but mine didn't.

 

I've read ten articles and tried a couple different searches but have only found a dozen or so songs listed anywhere online. Is the entire 250 song playlist recorded somewhere?

 

I found this aftershave I'd been looking for on Belgian Amazon (amazon.com.be) - they dont sell the same kind in the US anymore but it's apparently still available overseas. I was going to see about having some shipped to me in the US and couldn't figure out any way to do so. I know the US Amazon site has this AmazonGlobal program where people from dozens of countries can order from the US site and have it shipped to them but apparently the non-US sites dont have a similar service available. Am I missing something?

 
 

Feral fuckin' megacats

 

Frank Sinatra by them is good too https://youtu.be/7xw49Y-bYYk

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