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Some people just really enjoy bicycling. Now don't get me wrong, I agree this is insane, a cig kills my ability to bike much. But I totally get not caring about your health and just happening to have a hobby you love be exercise

Yeah you still have to order your bad idea custom, whether it's an irish coffee or a red bull + liquor. Or just mix everclear and caffeine powder at home.

She might be the only young horny and straight woman here outside the porn communities.

Yeah it turns out a job that starts by picking for people too violent for football and gives cte is going to have horrendous participants

A lot of people see those they interact with sexually as lesser for it, especially if they're ashamed of being attracted to such people. Sex workers in particular get it really bad because a lot of people are ashamed of using porn or paying for sex. But you see the same in people who fetishize fat folks and trans folks for example and it's a huge thing with racial fetishes too.

This is at its extreme with people engaging in violence towards such people, but a lot of folks are really uncomfortable with the idea that they may be waiting in line at a grocery store behind a prostitute or the idea that a porn star may want to get involved in the pta because they care about their child's education. Sex workers' entire existence is reframed through the lens of their job, and their job is given the moral weight of these people's discomfort with sex that they don't approve of.

Oh yeah, that's not super rare. On the transfem side there's the denial beard phenomenon. And for y'all guys it's somewhat common to have had a period of heavy femininity before acceptance. Basically doing the gender roles really hard because that's what you're supposed to (and maybe then you'll actually want it if you do it right)

It began with a long attempt to not look too hard into the fantasies of being a girl or to transition that more or less dominated my internal life as a kid. Then as a teenager I asked myself seriously if I was trans and found a stupid argument I could stretch to say I wasn't. I spent the next year or so low key thinking that there was a 50% chance I'd transition later in life.

Then at 18, after a high school religious retreat, I accepted that at least a part of me was female and I wasn't cis. I spent the next year and a half closeted nonbinary identifying.

At 19 everything just kinda started overflowing. I was seeing online trans women start to appear that were just like me, and they made it less scary. And I decided I'd start experimenting with femininity. I made some breast forms and something just kinda clicked there. As that night went on I started really thinking about my dysphoria and how while it had a sinusoidal steady state solution, the transient solution continued increasing (calculus is transing genders, you heard it here first). Then it just clicked. I still remember my first thoughts: "fuck I'm a woman. Shit, that makes me gay. Fuck, my life's going to be hard isn't it."

After that it was just a question of if I tried to keep it hidden until I could dip out of everyone in my life's life or come out and transition quickly. I'm glad I chose the latter.

Wait, what kind of fucking lunatic commutes across the rockies‽

It's not about her being a wheelchair user, it's about her personality, the wheelchair is just the means to keep her out

Here, cheap gas and good wages for the workers. I'm on the other side of the country now, but I miss it. Though apparently wawa is now invading ohio as well

Actually those socks would probably go great with my birkenstocks. I've been fetishized for being a second generation immigrant from Germany a few times before, why not lean in to it

I don't understand wall drug either, but to be fair I didn't stop because I was trying to get through south Dakota as fast as possible