[-] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

But what I mean about not being too worried, is that I have a modicum amount of faith in fellow Canadians.

I'm glad you do, and I don't. If, as polls show he should rather easily, Poilievre wins the next election we'll have a Prime Minister who marched with the Convoy. In addition, the Federal Conservative party voted in 2022 to not recognize climate change. The idea he'll place restrictions down is, to my mind, flat out wrong. I think he'll bow and kowtow to whatever Trump says, and from the amount of 'Make Canada Great Again' hats (And the full on MAGA ones as well, which is.. bizarre) I see throughout the interior of BC/Alberta, I think there's some serious indicators the voters will, too. John Rustad almost beat the BC NDP. Polls show 43% of voters in Ontario plan to vote for Doug Ford again.

I am glad you have faith in Canadians, I just don't understand where that faith comes from.

[-] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world -1 points 1 hour ago

So to win elections they need the support of people that don’t treat trans people properly.

They don't though, because they're never going to get that voter either way.

[-] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago

The issue is, especially for measles, herd immunity. There are some major problems with measles in particular, such as:

Measles is so contagious that one infected person can spread the respiratory virus to 90% of people in the same room—and it can live in the air for two hours. Often, an infected person doesn’t even know they have measles for several weeks.

and

Early symptoms include a fever, cough, runny nose, and red eyes, all of which could be overlooked as part of a common cold. A skin rash doesn’t typically appear until three to five days after the first symptoms appear. Someone with measles is contagious four days before the rash begins and four days after. There is no cure for measles, but if you’ve received the measles vaccine or are immune from a previous infection, consider yourself protected.

Another major problem is...:

Depending on the disease, herd immunity may begin to show beneficial effects when just 40% of the population is vaccinated. But for particularly contagious diseases, that threshold is far higher, exceeding 80%. The vaccination rate should be about 96% to achieve herd immunity for measles.

So we're going to have immune compromised people getting and then spreading measels. It hits children the hardest, and we're going to start seeing absolutely heart-breaking headlines about children dying to a completely preventable illness.

[-] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world 6 points 13 hours ago

We're already having a problem with it in Canada, so I'm pretty damn nervous. I have family members who really rely on herd immunity.

[-] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world 29 points 1 day ago

Wow, the measles are going to absolutely ruin America, and then spread to the world. One of my family members was 'immune' to the vaccine for it, and a doctor took my aunt aside and told her that basically any large crowd was a danger to my cousin. IE. "Go to the fair and there's a chance he catches it." Luckily he was able to finally reach the % required that from the vaccine but I think he was 16 before that happened.

So many children are going to die. I wonder if people who didn't vote in the US are starting to realise what they've done.

[-] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Really? Can you share them? I saw the post on lemmy complaining about wanting male/female options, but there's also this article with gems such as below.

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Even in the comments of that article though, is "DEI detected = Purchase rejected".

So the comments are out there, probably on reddit too, but they are there.

[-] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

It's weird, because I took it to mean that the people she's talking to are going to be denied insurance in some way next.

I mean we can assume, and it's fairly likely, that it was a reference to the assassination, but American court is fucked if this is enough.

[-] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

I assume a menorah of dildos is out.

[-] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

Saying person x should be shot, no jury would convict you is not ok.

Vladimir Putin should be shot, no jury will convict you.

[-] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago

I honestly hadn't considered it until people started asking if I had planned to.

Thank you for the link though, I guess I have a lot to consider here.

[-] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago

I am considering the pill form, am worried about the side effects. The list of drugs I've had negative side effects to is longer than the one of drugs I haven't. :( But we can still try! Thank you <3 and I'm sorry for your loss as well. People are shockingly callous in person about this issue.

[-] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world 8 points 6 days ago

Thank you for the response :)

My hair stylist actually mentioned HRT as a method haha so you aren't the first. I'm honestly on the fence about it, which is surprising because I didn't expect that from myself. I'm fine with most of my body, just not my hair haha. I will ask my doctor, thank you :)

I've heard from friends of mine that given how warm I tend to run that a wig would be tough, but yes, I am considering it. It would be a holding action, so to speak, definitely.

I understand other people could/might be fine if I am bald, but it's more that I am losing a rather large focus of my femininity, and have to work around that. I mean that's getting older, this is just more... extreme. I wish I had just gone entirely gray early, that I can work with.

I do appreciate it, thank you.

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(This is a throwaway alt for my main lemmy account because I don't want to doxx myself. I'm an ally, and my daughter is transfem, but I understand I am not. If I need to remove this post, please let me know.)

Hey all

Early this year I came out as enby. The day I came out, I decided to do something with my mid-back length long hair to feel more femme. As I combed it and actually looked in the mirror for the first time in years, I saw I had thinning hair, looked with an additional mirror/my phone, and sadly came to the realization I had the first few steps of male pattern baldness. I can still 'hide' it by combing my hair back, using a small-tooth comb, etc, but soon I won't be able to hide it.

To my surprise this caused me a massive amount of dysphoria, and I realised that I had only ever been 'clocked' as feminine due to my hair, so I had made the connection between the two. I can't use the hair foams because they are toxic to cats and I would rather die than hurt my cat. I tend to react negatively to a fair number of medicines so the pill options are pretty scary, particularly with 'permanent E.D.' being out there. My doctor said I was a good candidate for microneedling/hair transplants, but those are far, far too expensive for me.

My male friends just told me to buzz it off and be done with it. My female/enby friends told me to keep it long for now and go back to my hairdresser when it becomes harder to hide.

I wanted to reach out to my transfem sisters and siblings to see:

Do if any of you had any advice for someone who feels at least part feminine, but doesn't know what to do to be more femme when shaved headed, or like when to shave their head, etc? Should I just work on my makeup/earring/accessory skills?

Thank you so much <3

Forgot to say I am from Canada if that helps any.

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