hoshikarakitaridia

joined 2 years ago

Echoing the rest of the comments here: as soon as he knew you were 13, for him to continue dating you is fucked up.

Also for him to blame you for making him date you is absolutely bizarre and stupid. HE decides whom to date.

And now to answer your question: I can only assume he doesn't feel sorry. I could believe he might feel guilty but that's because he realizes how fucked up the whole thing is. I can't say for sure, and I don't think he really tries to reflect, otherwise he wouldn't even have gone that far.

That is so stupid it makes me mad.

WotC and Hasbro are truly the Dalton's of tabletop gaming.

The Csam caching is the worst issue.

So many countries basically regulate that if you have Csam on your PC you can go to jail. So if you're hosting, and even if it gets deleted, that still means it was on the server. And that shit is bad.

Legally frightening.

I understand that this picture is making a point. But that's not funny. Memes are funny usually.

[–] hoshikarakitaridia@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Where is the meme though

To me it sounds like something other than depression, however it doesn't matter because you are clearly right, these are extremely unhealthy thinking patterns and it is a symptom of maybe bigger issues you need to address.

And it is true, everyone deserves love and there's nothing about you that makes you categorically undesirable. Just some things specific people like or don't like about you.

You should consider talking to a therapist, or at least someone who is not involved with you day-to-day but understands you. Having someone reality check your thoughts, especially those ones, can be extremely helpful to get a better frame of reference against those toxic thoughts, that are often times not rooted in reality.g

[–] hoshikarakitaridia@lemmy.world 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Jep

Da hat jemand die Grundleitsätze unseres Justizsystems nicht verstanden. Am wichtigsten ist Rehabilitation, dann Sicherheit und erst dann das gerechte Aufwiegen der Strafe.

Der Sinn ist nie die Bestrafung an sich.

Neben dem Fakt dass es verdammt dämlich ist geizig zu werden durch Schwarzfahren, denn es sind nicht die Milliardäre die die Bahn nutzen.

I think this is not the right community for random news

[–] hoshikarakitaridia@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You too, it sounds like you got this on your own already even if it's difficult, but if you need to talk you can hit me up anytime:)

[–] hoshikarakitaridia@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Sounds like you're going through a lot.

First off,what other have told you is the best basic advice. There's nothing you can do and you have to assume she won't change her mind. You also said you are 23 and you feel like you are being childish. That's absolutely not true, if someone broke up at 30 or 40 or 50 or whatever with a long time friend it would be just as rough. This situation is hard, and there's no learning unfortunately and no preparation, it just sucks.

And that is what I would say as well: it's fucked up. It sucks. It's fine to feel betrayed and sad and angry and lonely. It's very fair to feel that way, because you lost something important. It's ok to not feel ok and it's normal to be so moved by something so hard.

Maybe there's something to say for changing your routine a bit. Finding other friends circles that she is not involved in, trying new hobbies and everything. That way you have something new to think about and other people to talk to - this might help with her being around parties every now and again.

Also make sure you take care of yourself, start building up a new routine.

It could be beneficial to talk to her when your feelings towards her are not as strong anymore, but it will always be awkward and there's nothing to expect from it. It will just be a conversation and who knows where it goes.

These are all steps that can help you move on, but of course there is no handbook for breakups so this could look very different for everyone.

Although I haven't been in your situation it sounds really rough and I'm sorry you have to go through this. I'm sure you'll find someone else who loves you and will stick around.

[–] hoshikarakitaridia@lemmy.world 19 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Yes.

It's not a utopia, but it's the better social media platform for my mental health and I genuinely like it here.

I mean NGL they used to be pretty unbiased for quite a while which was very odd considering they have direct ties to Qatar. I can't speak for their recent coverage though and there's probably something to be said about them falling out of favor.

 

Angus & Julia Stone - Losing You

 

This is a genuine question.

I have a hard time with this. My righteous side wants him to face an appropriate sentence, but my pessimistic side thinks this might have set a great example for CEOs to always maintain a level of humanity or face unforseen consequences.

P.S. this topic is highly controversial and I want actual opinions so let's be civil.

And if you're a mod, delete this if the post is inappropriate or if it gets too heated.

 

It's very late but I'm hungry and can't decide if I should eat something. I wanna make tortellini but I also feel like sleeping sounds more healthy.

I have an appointment tomorrow and I talked with friends until after midnight. Maybe I should just go to bed.

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submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by hoshikarakitaridia@lemmy.world to c/boostforlemmy@lemmy.world
 

I just had an ad appear while scrolling through the comment section of a post.

No big deal in itself, but: the ad started to play at volume even though I put my media viewer in auto mute. It's night and I don't wanna wake people up with videos I never even wanted to see and even tho I didn't click anything wrong.

Is this how it should be? Is there an option to disable audio on ads? I have auto mute on enabled for my media viewer; why does this not automatically apply to ads as well?

I get that this app has ads to survive but there's always a nice and a really annoying way to do it and this is definitely on the annoying side for me rn.

 

I switched to Windows 11 about a year ago. A few months ago my PC started randomly crashing and rebooting, without any blue screens.

Am I the only one? Does someone know anything about this?

Pretty sure I can rule out power surges or overheating or stuff like that. There's been no indication. The system log is empty as well, apart from Windows being annoyed that it just got restarted without any notice.

 

For me in the top of the image, there should be download button and stuff.

The top is white and the symbols are white. There's no gradient. I literally can't see it.

I know this is dumb but I think it's also an easy fix as the bottom already has a gradient.

Edit: credits to the OP of this https://lemmy.world/pictrs/image/b722cda5-9fd5-4dc0-8f57-450d8f5ee8d7.jpeg

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