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Anon visits a coworker (sh.itjust.works)
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[-] FierroGamer@sh.itjust.works 162 points 11 months ago

I feel like the idea that women are otherworldly creatures instead of people and seeing someone being nice to their partner as "the man having tamed a female and convinced her to treat him well" has a lot to do with his problem.

I hate how much that is preserved socially, there's no good reason why that hasn't gone away at least a decade or two ago.

[-] chaosppe@lemmy.world 18 points 11 months ago

Totally agree. I've been in a relationship for 5 years now, and it most definitely didnt involve me trying to tame her 🤣

It was just luck to meet. We both liked each other. That's literally it.

[-] ra1d3n@lemm.ee 24 points 11 months ago

The important feat is making yourself into a person that the other person would like to have in their life and makes their life better.

[-] FierroGamer@sh.itjust.works 22 points 11 months ago

Yeah, seeing them as a person seems like a crucial part in that equation.

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