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[-] OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.ml 20 points 4 months ago

What does it even look like when you wake up in a donor ward? Was he a write-off and the doctors were just like 'oh shit, he's awake'? Do non-donors simply get disposed of instead of being brought there?

[-] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

He's older and it's been tough to get explicit details from him, but yeah it sounds like because it was during COVID and beds for bodies were so scarce, on top of the fact that they didn't have high hopes for him surviving (so many people his age with COVID just never made it), that they were keeping in there for simplicity's sake. Anyway, it spurred me to begin looking into organ donation actually functions, and I mean, it makes sense, I just hadn't really thought about it before that you technically have to have your body being kept alive to be able to donate the organs. A rotting organ probably isn't very useful. That's why it usually happens with terminal patients where the outcome is 100% they are gonna die. During COVID, with bodies piling up, and lack of open beds in hospitals, it at least makes sense to me that he would have ended up there, in case he didn't wake up. It was pandemonium, at the time. Sadly, it seems to have kind of messed with his head to wake up in that situation, he's a lot less trustful of doctors now.

[-] MSugarhill@feddit.de 10 points 4 months ago

If I'd walk up from coma with one leg less, I might lose my trust in doctors too...

[-] lemmy_nightmare@sh.itjust.works 13 points 4 months ago

It’s not the leg amputation, I believe, they considered him “as good as dead” when he went into coma. He knew he was getting an amputation. What he didn’t expect was that he would wake up to a nightmare of being prepped for his other organs to be removed.

[-] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 2 points 4 months ago

Damn that is a nightmare. That's not just trust issues, that's a legitimate traumatic event. That is trauma.

[-] MSugarhill@feddit.de 1 points 4 months ago

Sorry, I misunderstood your post.

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