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This sounds like stalking tbh. Maybe you can report this to the police?
This. People this controlling and with this little regard for other people's rights and boundaries tend to react extremely poorly to having their control challenged. The most dangerous time in any abusive relationship is when the victim leaves-- and make no mistake, OP, that's what's happening to your friend. Escalation to physical violence in these circumstances would not be out of the ordinary.
Please be careful, and make sure your friend has a plan to make sure she's in a safe place where her soon-to-be-ex can't get to her before she breaks up with him. And I would strongly recommend you both get a restraining order if that's something you feel comfortable doing.
I know this may sound paranoid, but it's always best to err on the side of caution in potentially dangerous situations like these.
I have been someone affected by a situation like this in my childhood. My dear friend was kidnapped and murdered by her mothers controlling ex boyfriend, so this type of situation hits me personally. I have decided I am going to talk to a lawyer and contact the local police. I may also ask my friend if she would like me to file a restraining order for her to get him out of the house if she wishes. But no. With my history, if anything were to happen to her or her son and me knowing I had the chance to possibly stop it, I wouldn’t be able to live with myself. Thank you everyone for all the help and advice. I honestly didn’t have anyone else to go to with this situation.