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Everything you say is misconstrued through some lens over which you have no control.
example:
Me: Hey do you want to go for a walk when you are done what you are working on?
Them: Why are you always so critical of how long things take?
Me: What. The. Fuck?
Me: when you're ready let's do the thing we'd agreed we wanted to do around now.
Them: okay. (drops everything)
Me: okay...I knew you're in the middle of something, I can wait 5 minutes.
Them: ugg, no, its fine let's just go now.
(Later with someone else)
Them: Ugg, I always feel rushed to do things with [me].
Other: you know he'll will wait for you right, its not a big deal.
Them: I know, but I feel bad. I dont like wasting his time...(he doesn't have a lot of it left).