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this post was submitted on 12 Jul 2024
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I don't hold any answers but if you're reading this comment, I want to know how you take into consideration that if they are asking for money, that money can easily be used for drugs/opioids/other stuff which will hurt them.
i.e., Do you give them money or do you give them food, a bottle of water or stuff like that?
Just don't judge what they use money for. It's not your place to police someone's habits. Addiction is very hard.
A couple years ago some guy at the gas station gave me this long ass spiel about how he wasn't on drugs (like the whole time it took to fill my tank up he was going on about it) and then asked me for gas money. I was like buddy here's $20 but if you're spending this on drugs get some for me too.