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this post was submitted on 22 Jul 2023
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Do you want some good news? You probably dodged a bullet. Based on what you're saying, he wouldn't be a good person for a long-term relationship, even if you two lived near each other.
Kind of. She broke up once she decided to go back with her parents (NB: she was around 24yo, I was 20), and we two had no pretension to keep a distance relationship.
In your situation I'd probably recommend focusing on the things that you need to finish this week. And when they're over, find something else to keep yourself busy. Time heals.