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this post was submitted on 03 Nov 2024
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It's probably too sensitive? Have you tried stimulating it indirectly, for example by licking/touching its hood right above it instead?
Also, take your time, listen to the body language and if you sense some kind of positive response you keep doing exactly that, you don't change the pace, pressure, angle, etc.
I did try that, it seems to just lack any pleasure, it is sensitive, but less then other people I have been with and no matter what I do it does not produce pleasure, usually it just doesn't do anything for her
Sorry I couldn't help. Ultimately, communication is key and if you're both satisfied and she doesn't feel she needs more or missing out, then there's no harm :)