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this post was submitted on 03 Nov 2024
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I did, she doesn't have the experience to know what do to and she isn't against me looking into it, but she is okay as things are right now.
If she is okay with things you should leave it alone, lest you put pressure on her to orgasm which is like, one of the least sexy things I can think of.
You can enjoy sex without orgasming. Sometimes my partner or I will opt for strap sex even though it is harder for both of us to orgasm because it feels nice/scratches a different itch. If she wanted to orgasm during sex she'd probably start masturbating to make it easier to do.
Of course I would not pressure her, I'm just looking to see if there is something that I didn't think of