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cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/17772988

A helpful guide on how to be less frustrating towards people of color.

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[-] harl3k1n@feddit.org 10 points 1 week ago

There is actually only one way. Don't treat people differently because of their skin colour.

[-] flora_explora@beehaw.org 12 points 6 days ago

This sounds an awful lot like "I don't see color" and is a pretty ignorant take. How do you prevent treating people differently while there is systemic discrimination giving people power over others and leading to a complicated web of privileges? Saying "don't treat people differently" is ignoring the systemic level of racism (and other forms of discrimination). You don't get absolved about confronting yourself with your own privileges and position of power over others just because you pretend to treat everyone equally. And I'm fact I don't think you can treat all people equally. Think of people you have a relationship with vs strangers for example.

[-] Shezzagrad@lemmy.ml 9 points 6 days ago

This is some white saviour bullshit right here and I say that as a brown south Asian born in Britian. Most people want to be treated like equal humans, not charity cases, not terrorists. A human being capable of human achievement and human malice. If someone treats me "ah too sweetly and gently" because I'm brown like my best friends Oxford mother does at time, I see it as extremely condescending and arrogant. But I was also very fortunate to grow up in a safe enough environment to grow and learn about these things that many of my ethnic background never get to.

[-] flora_explora@beehaw.org 5 points 6 days ago

I took treating everyone as a normal human being as granted. This would concern the individual level only. My point was that just saying "I treat everyone equally" completely lacks any understanding of structural discrimination. Like I said, this is similar to the "I don't see color" debate. Or this Pat Parker quote relates to this too, doesn't it?

The first thing you do is to forget that I'm black. Second, you must never forget that I'm black.

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