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i feel so icky (lemm.ee)

submitted 1 month ago by alexsystem@lemm.ee to c/lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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(i am genderfluid and bi btw but still sapphic 🙏 😅)

i’ve seen people joke flirt with each other as friends, but not like this, so idk if these two are friends or dating. Emma is being nicer so i added her alt when she added me to a gc, but these things she”s saying and what she’s doing in a group chat instead of dm’s is kinda putting me off…

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[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

~~Does Olivia know you're not a cis man? If they know you're genderfluid, they're basically 1. denying your identity and 2. outing you to others, both of which are concerning.~~ It looks like Olivia is trying to affirm Alex's gender (Alex is transmasc, not transfem).

Emma is not just inappropriately sexing in a group chat (presumably without consent) and when that makes you (reasonably) uncomfortable they 1. dismiss your boundary and 2. insult you. This is the behaviour I would expect from a sexual predator.

Personally I wouldn't want to continue interaction with either of them ...