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Womens friendships breaking up can be painful, a relief, or just plain messy. What was the thing that ruined one of yours?

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[–] MrsDoyle@sh.itjust.works 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)

She was thrilled about the recent UK court ruling on trans women. I was not. We have different opinions on a lot of topics, with some heated discussions, but this was different. She made a lot of nasty remarks about a woman we both know, who is possibly trans - I don't know, it's none of my business - calling her a man and implying she was a potential rapist. This was beyond an opinion that was different from mine, it was a verbal attack on someone I respect, who's never done her any harm. We haven't spoken since.

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I always find it strange when someone focuses in on trans people. Of all the issues in the world THATS what they care about

[–] MrsDoyle@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago

It is strange, isn't it? I honestly don't care what's going on in someone else's pants, it's none of my business. Now and then I have to remember a new name and/or gender, no big deal. What books they're reading is much more interesting.