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I haven't played a game for more than 30 minutes in years.
Once you have a big boy job, responsibilities, and a family (if you choose to do so) game time ends up being really low on the list of priorities.
I'm sure many will disagree, but you just can't devote time to such things once you are an adult. You have to outgrow such indulgences or life will smack you in the dick. If your car is broken, the dishwasher is being an asshole, you need to refinance, the kids have music lessons, the dog is old and needs to go to the vet (again), your mom needs someone to replace her hose faucet, you just can't sit around dicking around with a game.
The real issue here is actually just your opinion of games. You consider games to be “sit around dick around” time wasters.
If that’s all it is to you then yeah you’ll naturally find yourself moving on as basically anything else will be more fulfilling.
Games to me are a form of art which have the power to change lives. A medium I’ve been continuing to develop an appreciation for my entire life, alongside other pursuits such as music. As life gets hectic into adulthood I’ve found that games are far more meaningful to me now than ever before.
And I’m not sitting around looking for time to kill. I make time to play because of how restorative and life affirming it is. Games like Citizen Sleeper, Spiritfarer, Outer Wilds, To The Moon, Slay the Princess, Hollow Knight, Eastward, Arctic Eggs. Some experiences stay with you forever, expand the depth of your empathy, and steer your heart towards kindness.
I don’t know what’s gonna happen to you if you try to crank out endless rounds of Call of Duty to the point where it interferes with you taking your dog to the vet. But I’m 100% certain all working adults would benefit from engaging with meaningful art regularly. Be it games, books, film, etc. Whatever strikes you.
I switched to books. Portable, cheap, can start/stop any time. Can read in down moments, can listen on long car rides.
I started playing Outer Wilds. I just don't have the time to prioritize it to the point where I can enjoy it.
I found that I can't just start and stop reading and get anything out of it in the same way that I can't just start and stop a game, but that's good that you can.