I've read on a few instances about why people hate on exploding heads. But all the links they post link to the tameist shit.
Like... people having discussions about how it's nice that Germany is trying to give reperation monies to holocaust victums. Or... just boring rational discussions about things. (most recent things I've come across, I forget the old lemmy.world stuff, but that was tame too.) Or, at the very worst, baseless accusations without evidence.
Seriously, this post right here is probably more offensive than anything I've seen people use as evidence as to why they should defederate from exploding heads.
I think it's because once they can't take a joke. Like trans memes. When I see or if I see things I don't like on EH (which is rare) it doesn't bother me.
That goes for the internet in general. I don't let frivolous things ruin my day.
Mostly it's because we don't just agree with everything they do. There are ppl in the world who don't have the same world view as everyone else that's just a fact.
I WOULD like to see them join, and create communities they like. That would be really nice. But they are too scared