I think I'm cis but I'm questioning my gender kinda, need advice (lemmy.ml)

submitted 2 years ago by Bicyclejohn@lemmy.ml to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org

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I am very comftable with he/him pronouns. Always was but recently I noticed that while I don't go out of my way to use them I'm also fine with they/them pronouns being used on me.

It could be a phase but I'm not sure. It could also be that I tend to use they/them as an alternative in. I'm confused

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[-] Starglasses@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago

To add: I don't identify by traditional gender. I am non-binary and I use she/her pronouns because that's what feels right. My doctor(!!) assumed I was they/them because of being non-binary. Even doctors are catching up on all the new knowledge we're spreading. It will take time for people to accept change.

Sex, gender, pronouns. They don't have strict combination rules. You do you!