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[-] Justas@sh.itjust.works 31 points 1 year ago

A lot of women avoid bi guys on purpose.

[-] DragonTypeWyvern@literature.cafe 32 points 1 year ago

It's great, the trash filters itself.

[-] Maajmaaj@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 year ago

Which is odd. Just because a person is bi doesn't mean they aren't monogamous.

[-] Ummdustry@sh.itjust.works 32 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I mean, how many guys will filter out girls with a nose ring on the grounds that she must be a ho? How many employers will filter out long hair on the grounds you must be a druggie? How many strangers cross the street just because I'm covered in blood?

welcome to the world, stereotyping is still real and powerful, unfortunately.

[-] Maajmaaj@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 year ago
[-] Thassodar@lemm.ee 16 points 1 year ago

If you have to ask, you can't afford it.

Another bloodist over here 😮‍💨

[-] SuckMyWang@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Mind your own business

[-] Nommer@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

Oh... So I've fairly recently been questioning bi but I've already had zero luck with women. I'm fucked aren't I?

[-] hydroel@lemmy.world 21 points 1 year ago
[-] CCF_100@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

I laughed really hard at your comment 🤣

[-] MagicPterodactyl@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm a bi guy in my late 20s. In my experience telling a woman you are bi is an excellent way to find out who she is. Most women my age think it's cool or even hot, then a small few show that they are homophobic pieces of shit. Either way you get a quick answer on if they are worth pursuing.

Now if you are in an older generation or in an extremely conservative area your luck may not be as good as mine. But it's worth remembering that if you can fuck dudes if you have trouble with women, which is also very fun.

[-] Maajmaaj@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

Hey, pan guy here. The answer is yes, in the short term. Long term, you may have luck finding a woman who does not care/ is into it. But, depending on where you're located, long term is a very fuckin long time.

[-] deathbird@mander.xyz -1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

A lot of women are into bi guys.

Just depends if you're looking for church ladies or alt chicks.

Edit to paraphrase: It just depends on what you're looking for, and what your dating pool looks like.

A socially conservative woman is more likely to balk at dating a bisexual man, but socially liberal/progressive women are far more likely to be fine with dating a bisexual man. Some in the latter camp will even be excited at the prospect of dating someone who's bisexual. It's certainly not an automatic penalty against your dating prospects, and in the right milieu it can even be an asset.

[-] echodot@feddit.uk -5 points 1 year ago

Those two being the only options right

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