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[-] Antiwork@hexbear.net 18 points 10 months ago

What are your thoughts on self diagnosis of ND? Coming to the reality I’m definitely on the autism spectrum. I don’t think I need to fill out a scantron to figure that out.

[-] Veganhydride@hexbear.net 11 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Here's one perspective: https://archive.is/yaFoo

Ask yourself: what would an official diagnosis bring you? And what would self-identification bring you? Are there specific issues?

Going through similar things right now, I feel like I'm probably autistic but I just have zero confidence in choosing that label for myself so I would like some actual confirmation. I have a suspicion I may have subclinical autism or something so that may not help at all.

[-] Antiwork@hexbear.net 5 points 10 months ago

Thank you for the article. That was extremely helpful.

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