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Pornhub is somewhere over there ——>
I don't want porn. I want art to stop awkwardly excluding a major part of life.
"Everyone is beautiful and no one is horny." It's like movies these days are all set in this weird Twilight Zone world where sexuality just isn't a thing. I find this far creepier than the gratuitous sex scenes of the 80s.
This is because some people aren’t on the spectrum and ignored. They deserve representation. If you find that weird this is more a problem with you because maybe you have been submerged into sexuality for far too long that anything lacking sex is weird. It’s like being addicted to a food taste and realizing there are other types of food and you think it’s weird that other types of food exist , well then : you’re the weird one.
Why are you booing him? He's right.
Porn is super easy to access. There are more hours of porn recorded than there are hours of my life left.
R-rated sex scenes are literally competing with a host of just better options.
Not once has a fake sex scene in a movie not trigger cringe in me. It's nice to see the actresses' titties but that is it. Fade to black, imply they fucked and move on. Pornhub literally is a click away.
The fact that you only equate sex and nudity to porn shows the problem. Sex and nudity can be fun, dramatic, scary, or funny depending on the context. It wouldn't be "competing" with porn.
I can't suspend my disbelief when media pretends sexuality just doesn't exist or isn't relevant.
It's not 100%, someone else brought up Crank which has a hilarious sex scene that I wouldn't cut and it's vital to the plot.
Most sex scenes just have this feel of "the director wanted to see actresses' naked and had the power of authority and money to make it happen". It doesn't feel fun it has an air of exploitation to it, which I'll admit lots of porn does too, but not all. The best porn is when everyone involved likes it.
I think a sex scene in an otherwise not-pornographic film needs to be second guessed. Does cutting it ruin the plot? Could it just be implied and move on?
I just think they really need to justify it more than normally do.
Why? Why can't they just have it for fun like any other type of gratuitous scene in a movie? I agree it's not usually done well, but that doesn't mean it can't or shouldn't be done.
99% of previous attempts have been, what I would call "weak shit". It's up to the writers/director/actors to bring their A game and prove themselves, because so far, I've yet to see one i wouldn't mind being cut out entirely.
In short, it's a skill issue.