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Tickling, got one ex and she was my first. Wanted me to tie her up and tickle her. I learned boobs can be very ticklish.
I briefly dated a girl that had a tickle fetish combined with a toddler fetish. She wanted to be tickled to the point of having an "accident". Then she wanted to be stripped down and given a bath. Then it was on. Very normal girl otherwise and she swore it was just her kink.
Is it bad that i'd be down for that ๐ญ. I mean as long as i'm in the position of control and am not doing the weird stuff i don't mind weird kinks.
I mistakenly believed I was in control too but she had all the control. She decided when we engaged in her fetish, how long I had to tickle her, exactly how I had to bathe her. It was exhausting sometimes to get to my reward.
That's the way bdsm folk like to view it! And this is part of that tbf.
Pretty common one I think
This comes as an absolute shock to me.