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submitted 9 months ago by Lamb@lemmy.zip to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

This is a question intended solely for the adult audience, both tagged as NSFW and with a NSFW warning in the title. I don't see a rule prohibiting those, and I hope it's allowed.

Not talking about rare because taboo, but ones people may not even ever think of when hearing "fetish".

I have a major fetish for... apartments. Housing. Generally interior of buildings. It's been born out of my socioeconomic situation and continues. I find the idea of having sex in a nice, non-claustophobic space extremely allouring. If I see a glimpse of a nice interior via a window, it's where my thoughts immediately go. I see a nice plant in the window? I fantasize about how good the rest of the place looks like and how hot it would be to do the do in it. Nice lightning? Same thoughts. Tall windows implying high ceilings and more space? Guess what... I thought I'd appreciate living alone, but my apartment is claustrophobic, which is something I thought I wouldn't mind, since I grew up in worse, but it affects my mental health. Fantasizing about having sex in more modern, more spacious places is not only an escapism, but actually turns me on a lot. I hate that most people don't seem to be able to host. I would probably give a chance to someone I otherwise wouldn't consider if they had a nice place - to picture how strong the fetish has become over time.

I'm curious about other people's. Share away.

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[-] SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 60 points 9 months ago

Tickling, got one ex and she was my first. Wanted me to tie her up and tickle her. I learned boobs can be very ticklish.

[-] DarkPassenger@lemmy.world 25 points 9 months ago

I briefly dated a girl that had a tickle fetish combined with a toddler fetish. She wanted to be tickled to the point of having an "accident". Then she wanted to be stripped down and given a bath. Then it was on. Very normal girl otherwise and she swore it was just her kink.

[-] SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 9 months ago

Is it bad that i'd be down for that ๐Ÿ˜ญ. I mean as long as i'm in the position of control and am not doing the weird stuff i don't mind weird kinks.

[-] DarkPassenger@lemmy.world 11 points 9 months ago

I mistakenly believed I was in control too but she had all the control. She decided when we engaged in her fetish, how long I had to tickle her, exactly how I had to bathe her. It was exhausting sometimes to get to my reward.

[-] SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 9 months ago

That's the way bdsm folk like to view it! And this is part of that tbf.

[-] MTK@lemmy.world 19 points 9 months ago
[-] SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 9 months ago

This comes as an absolute shock to me.

this post was submitted on 08 Nov 2023
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