Who's saying slamming doors? Who's saying turning on music. You're straw-manning me.

I'm saying opening and closing doors normally (still makes some sound unless you're being very, very careful) using the kitchen normally to prepare food (still makes some sound).

Does this seem rude when no indication of other needs is given? If yes, that's my issue with people in this thread, the assumption that night should be treated the same as day by default, and you're a dick otherwise.

My lordy.