No, it's just trauma and not wanting that to come up at the game table. Simple as that. I had a group before the pandemic where just about everyone had some kind of trauma and this is 100000% not the kind of thing they or I would enjoy.
I still don't understand why creating rumours about your character would be triggering for anyone.
How would a made up stories like "Borun caught a cheater at dice and string him up upside down hanging from the flag pole" or "Borun's horse went lame, but instead of putting him down, he paid a farmer to take care of him for life" bring up trauma? Especially since you're writing these yourself...
Or is the existence of rumours triggering somehow? In which case, maybe P&P RPGs aren't an appropriate activity since a lot of adventures rely on piecing together rumours to identify what's really going on.
No, it's just trauma and not wanting that to come up at the game table. Simple as that. I had a group before the pandemic where just about everyone had some kind of trauma and this is 100000% not the kind of thing they or I would enjoy.
I still don't understand why creating rumours about your character would be triggering for anyone.
How would a made up stories like "Borun caught a cheater at dice and string him up upside down hanging from the flag pole" or "Borun's horse went lame, but instead of putting him down, he paid a farmer to take care of him for life" bring up trauma? Especially since you're writing these yourself...
Or is the existence of rumours triggering somehow? In which case, maybe P&P RPGs aren't an appropriate activity since a lot of adventures rely on piecing together rumours to identify what's really going on.