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[-] dohpaz42@lemmy.world 14 points 3 months ago

Sounds like the mother might have postpartum depression. I’ve had similar thoughts too, and I also suffer from depression.

With my first born I was fine, and enjoyed pretty much the whole experience (colic notwithstanding). But with my second born, it took me a while to feel good about having a second child. Turns out that is natural, but it never hurts to talk to someone about it.

[-] pennomi@lemmy.world 7 points 3 months ago

Not everyone who lives hates their life. It’s fine to have children, if you do your best to take care of them. It’s also fine to not have children. You do you.

[-] schwim@lemm.ee 7 points 3 months ago

I can't imagine wishing living forever on someone.

[-] JackGreenEarth@lemm.ee 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I wouldn't either. I would rather they weren't born in the first place, since either dying or living forever are both bad options.

[-] Gigan@lemmy.world 5 points 3 months ago

I wonder if the original commenter hates her own mother for similar reasons.

[-] CaptDust@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 months ago

Of all the things to regret or be concerned about children, mortality is the big one for her? Strange.

[-] Mycatiskai@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 months ago

Mortality is a hard concept to accept, likely even harder when you have to now consider the mortality of someone that came out of you.

True, we are all going to die some day but this planet is getting less and less habitable for us humans. We collectively are fucking the future and each generation after us is likely going to have worse lives. I think this person might have just realized that.

[-] paysrenttobirds@sh.itjust.works 0 points 3 months ago

Good things aren't bad just because they don't last forever.

[-] JackGreenEarth@lemm.ee 1 points 3 months ago

Death is also painful, and pain is generally agreed to be bad.

[-] Jake_Farm@sopuli.xyz 0 points 3 months ago

Immortality would literally drive us all mad.

[-] JackGreenEarth@lemm.ee 1 points 3 months ago

Immortality isn't the other option they want, they would rather the child never existed in the first place. Agreed, immortality is a bad option, but so is mortality. Oblivion/nonexistence is preferably to both.

[-] Jake_Farm@sopuli.xyz 1 points 3 months ago

Then achieve nirvana.

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The philosophical belief that having children is morally wrong and cannot be justified.

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