Almost certainly not by sound, but creating a seal in an ear canal can make it significantly easier to rupture an ear drum. Even a slap up side the head can rupture an ear drum if you get a good seal to their ear before all the trapped air gets crushed. Remarkably easy if it's the second time, I'd know! 20% hearing loss sucks.

Giving him the benefit of the doubt, maybe the alert startled him and he slapped his ear in surprise trying to dig it out. Or maybe stacked on an injury. Or he could always be a weirdo with thin membranes. We're not all clones!

According to a test conducted by the source below, they max out at 108.3 db, so I guess the claimants are full of shit.

https://headphonesaddict.com/how-loud-are-apple-airpods/

Why do you keep asking the same question over and over?

Absolutely not, they would burst before that. Even big over ears are physically incapable of producing such loud sounds.

Kid probably just stuck some crayons in his ears and now the family wants to get money from apple.