edit: panel is from I Love Amy
Don't call me cute, I'll cum.
this post was submitted on 10 Apr 2025
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Cute~
Cute π«΅
cuuuute
why does it look like you're breaking their knees?
some of us are just clumsy π
tries to strut down hallway, immediately whacks hand on doorknob hard enough to hear
grabs hand and leans over in pain, accidently headbutting the wall
omg I feel that so much
I have:
- fallen down stairs 5+ times, breaking my ankle on two such occasions
- stubbed my one of my middle toes on a door frame when attempting to walk out of my bathroom, splitting a toenail
- regularly run into walls, corners, and door frames
- regularly stub my toes on bed frames
- broken so many glasses and plates my parents thought something was wrong with me
I am usually paying attention (I think) and able to see well (I think); I suspect my proprioception is just off. When I was a kid, the ball often hit me in the face when attempting to play sports. I had a hard time coordinating my body, even when trying. There was a notable improvement when I started estrogen, I was able to navigate in the dark better than before, but I still run into objects so it could just be placebo.
I've generally heard it referred to as the "ADHD walk", myself. My hands generally take the worst of it; if anything i feel like I'm a little too spacially aware of the rest of my body
oo, that makes sense - I'm starting to suspect I might be neurodivergent, so it might turn out to be a semi-appropriate label for me π
The hands on the doorknob hurt so much - I can feel it just from your description, it almost makes me feel sick, lol
I'm working on getting an adult diagnosis for ADHD now haha, first major appointment is next week.
Literally just learned these two things tonight that explain so damn much
https://neurolaunch.com/adhd-sitting-weird/
https://www.healthline.com/health/fitness/postural-sway-adhd
Might also look into ASD, sometimes ASD can be the underlying cause of ADHD symptoms, see:
https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychiatry/articles/10.3389/fpsyt.2022.837424/full
How you react to stimulants might help differentiate, people with ADHD usually respond to stimulant medication differently.
Also, there is suspected overlap in the genetic causes of ASD and gender dysphoria:
https://academic.oup.com/jcem/article/104/2/390/5104458
Polymorphisms in two genes were overrepresented in transgender women by allele analysis but not by the (more stringent) genotype analysis.
...
Second, the G allele in STS is associated with reduced enzyme levels; this has been noted mostly in studies of ADHD (41), a condition with fivefold increased incidence of gender dysphoria (42), suggesting a possible overlap in etiology.
and ASD and ADHD both are associated with higher rates of gender dysphoria:
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24619651/
As compared to non-referred comparisons, participants with ASD were 7.59 times more likely to express gender variance; participants with ADHD were 6.64 times more likely to express gender variance.
Either way, congrats on moving forward with diagnosis!
Thanks! And yeah, my reaction to stimulants is abnormal: energy drink = relaxed (i still like them tho), something warm like coffee puts me out like a light. Had a childhood ADHD diagnosis but any/all medical records from back then might as well not exist.
yeah, and I'm not familiar with whether the ASD matches the postural issues linked in the articles you shared - sounds more like ADHD than ASD. Interesting!
It's more ambiguous in my case, I can't tell whether I have ASD or ADHD or both, lol
ASD and ADHD both feel like a dangerous diagnosis to have on record with Mr Brainworms in play. Its fucked up that our existence can be politicized and used against us π
Still, its causing me a great deal more stress and depression to not deal with it. Id like to actually be able to start things in my life, and not just passively exist. Actually play my steam catalog on the pc i just built instead of just watching youtube and anime
70% of people with ASD have ADHD, and it's suspected that the same mechanisms are at play with the conditions. Pathology is heavily centered on treatments for what's deemed necessary for us "function" in society. While not without uses, it's a limited way of viewing psychological differences
I think it's pretty complicated, as I understand it some people with ASD diagnosed with ADHD are misdiagnosed or rather their ASD is likely responsible for the ADHD symptoms and their brains don't respond to medication like others with ADHD do. I've been trying to read more about AuDHD and neurodiversity to understand how these two are connected, that's when I found this article:
https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychiatry/articles/10.3389/fpsyt.2022.837424/full
It's pretty much about this overlap and what we should think about the common dual diagnosis.
I think I might have some relatively mild traits of both ASD and ADHD, so part of this is to try to help understand myself, but I'm also rather wary of self-diagnosis (and also, currently, unwilling to get an official diagnosis as Zorsith points out due to the political situation).
EDIT: if you have any resources or book recommendations, please send them my wayπ
I arenβt cute af π₯Ί
~~Now pin me to the wall mommy~~
(Β΄ο½₯Οο½₯`)
now kith
Oh no! I'm not cute af~ π€
too bad, u r ΰ² α΄ΰ²
I cute, therefore I am
cutieo ergo sum
i wud litrlli lik - run away tho-- lik - - frfr jus --.,-,., jus run n lik - cry n lik hide behind bush n hope u jus leave so i cn relaim my standin spot... or walk somwhr els ... ig... is alsuu fin <3
bt lik yea nuu i cud nt evn lik - conceptualiz dis, lik - litrlli inpossibru--
that's literally what the character was doing in this story lol
the most beautiful women saying their ugly makes me feel like iβm grotesque :{
if no one's beautiful, then we might as well all be
I'm kinda stinky :/
stinking cute? π₯Ί
No, I'm also ugly
nah, u an absolute stinky cutie X3
huh is this a life hack?
that if you deny your cuteness, angry ladies will bully you into accepting it? π€
yes?
sounds like something an absolute cutiepie would do <3
Nahhhh I'm a disgusting ugly unloveable piece of shit. Nothing to do with being trans tho
truth be told, almost all cuties see themselves as disgusting ugly unlovable pieces of shit, so you're right at home. as a fellow disgusting ugly unlovable pieces of shit, i need to do my part to help y'all
you're WRONG!!! and here are some reasons why you're wrong:
- you've had the strength to survive this long, despite the obvious hell you've been through. there is beauty in that, and if even i can see it, then you will see it one day
- despite all the pain, you've been kind and encouraging and caring in your interactions with people here. the right wants to rob us of our basic empathy and decency, and here you are defying them
- i love you, god damn it. you might think that's meaningless because i don't really know you, you may think i wouldn't love you if i knew you. you'd be wrong. believe it or not, every second you survive is precious to me
so stop being ur own hater!!!
promise? :3