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Happens way too often to me.

edit: I had no idea this was such a common issue!

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[–] zephyr@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

This happens to me in the start of the book. But after I get really absorbed, my interest in the plot simply urge me to understand what's going on.

[–] sharkfucker420@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago

Do this all the time. It's more common with ADHD but everyone experiences it I think

[–] Turbosforsatan@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

I have the same problem with audio books. There I am, driving along, and then think "what the hell is going on in this story? Who are all these people?"

Admittedly, that probably says more about life than the story, but hey 🤣

[–] Aussiemandeus@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Always to me, read a page then re read the page. Dyslexia doesnt help either

[–] RanchOnPancakes@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

No but I listen to a lot of audio books and I read/listen to a lot of fantasy and sometimes fantasy worlds get a bit complicated. So I've learned to not start a new one until I can really pay attention for a while. Otherwise the new magic / concepts may bounce off me.

[–] Ataraxia@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Attention span issues. If I stick to my diet my attention span is great but eat carbs and I can't finish any task lol...

That happens when I'm tired. Sometimes my head falls into the book as well, I see it as a subtle hint my body gives me to hit the bed.

[–] KIM_JONG_JUICEBOX@beehaw.org 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I got like 800 pages into Gravity’s Rainbow once before I realized I had no idea what I was reading.

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[–] MCForTheBest@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

I do this with everything from reading to watching youtube videos etc. I have to pay special attention to really understand what I'm even reading/watching sometimes. My goldfish memory doesn't help at all

[–] goat@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I'm writing a book. How can I better avoid this to make the reader understand what's going on? I've been considering bolding the names of characters and places the first few times after they've been introduced.

While also having little intermissions where the characters consider the next best option (while sounding organic, of course)

What else?

[–] Aoladari@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Every time I have to try and read procedures for anything.

[–] liontigerwings@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago

Normal for me at least. I think I have adhd. Never got it diagnosed though

[–] Skyraptor7@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Business books do this all the time

[–] rgamuffin@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

This happens to me all the time.

[–] greyhathero@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Constantly for me. I reread or give up

[–] Kerwala@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

I think it's pretty normal. It's probably similar to zoning out while driving and suddenly realizing you were on autopilot. We're able to do a lot of things without active focus.

[–] Damaniel@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Sadly, all the time.

[–] CPlusPlus@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Lol yep, or when I'm playing a story heavy game / vn. I think I get distracted by my thoughts and then have to refocus myself 😅

[–] JoeKrogan@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Yea it happens all of the time. The mind wanders

[–] CaptainAlchemy@lemmy.one 2 points 2 years ago

I do this all the time, I thought it was just me when I was younger

[–] TommySalami@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

It happens to everyone to varying degrees. It's a phenomenon similar to highway hypnosis (where you forget completing large sections of familiar drives), in that you are consciously participating in the activity but not commiting enough processing power for your brain to deem it important enough to encode.

Reading becomes so practiced it's simple, comprehension is another matter entirely.

[–] hyperyog@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

This has happened way too many times, especially in many books. This makes doing a lot of my assignments a lot more difficult and often has dissuaded me from reading. I am trying to get better at reading, so I got myself some more books (that I'll read sometime in the future maybe) and combining it with some music or white noise to prevent me from zoning out.

[–] LyraTheUnholy@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

I used to be able to entirely loose myself in reading for hours, whether the book interested me or not, because I was just passionate about reading. Nowadays my ADHD (and partially my anxiety) has become so bad that I can barely get through one page while seriously paying attention.

[–] slim@vlemmy.net 2 points 2 years ago

Yeah, quite common. Used to happen to me even in my bookworm days

[–] sedawk@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago

Books, tv, movies, YouTube even. Especially if I'm multitasking with programming.

[–] mycatiskai@lemmy.one 2 points 2 years ago

Depending on the style of writing, when you are reading a book where you are putting yourself into a narrative.

Sometimes that narrative immediately envelopes you and you turn each page pulling you to the end of the story wanting more.

Sometimes it takes a little longer with the cogs of the story being just a bit bigger or smaller than your minds cogs. If the write too specifically without bringing in context that the reader can enmesh then the gears never turn and the book doesn't become a page turner, the reader tunes out.

I think sometimes editors cut content in the opening chapters of books to cut down word count so there is more at the end chapters to end the story well but at the cost of understanding at the outset of the adventure.

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