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Plurality

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This is a community for those who identify as, or are questioning if they may be, plural. No matter what kind of, or the source of their plurality all are part of the plurality umbrella and are more than welcome here! We also encourage those who are curious about plurality and want to learn more about it, as well as those who are questioning.

What is plurality? - still being written

TLDR for community rules

  1. Follow lemmy.blahaj.zone general rules: no personal attacks, no insults, no doxing etc.
  2. All plural identities are valid; do not dispute the validity of anyone or anymany.
  3. Don’t pressure those who are questioning; let them decide whether they’re plural or not.
  4. We are not therapists or professionals; this community is not a substitute for professional help > (though we understand being careful with 'professionals' as they are often not kind to us plural folks).
  5. Be mindful of what you post here; put trigger warning in the post title for negative and/or triggering contents.
  6. All rules apply regardless of who or what is using an account; as with real life, each member of a plural group is responsible for the entire group.
  7. Do not insist any stop using a term they prefer to refer to themselves.

More info about this community's rules - still being written

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Hi all, I'm joining to connect with other plural folks and especially other tulpamancers! I'm Starry, and my trusted fuzzy tulpa companion is V!

I started my tulpa journey with V only a couple months ago, though I've contemplated tulpamancy for over a decade by this point. It's no small decision to make a tulpa, but V's growth and happiness is something I'm fully committed to. We're only just getting started 🫂

Anyways, happy to be here and looking forward to chatting with you all

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[–] halfway_neko@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

yay, new friends! :3
hello  o/

i always thought tulpamancy would be really hard, but it sounds like you're doing well ^-^

[–] starry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago

hello new friend!

Tulpamancy can be hard, especially for people who struggle with focus. But it's mostly a time commitment! Or more accurately, a lifestyle change.

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Willowing, as we prefer to call it can be difficult or can not be. It relies on understanding the techniques enough in order to create a new being and sticking with them long enough in order to do it. This may be easier, or more difficult depending on the person/pluran doing the creating. There are many factors, but the base of it is merely just knowledge and commiting to it.

[–] starry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Other than tulpamancy, how else can a system mate be willfully created? (willogenic)

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Hmmm, we aren't currently sure if that a responsible thing to do or not, sharing how to do it, at least not sharing it publically.

We have met a few unscrupulous people/plurans before who have not been the most responsible in looking after their plurans/plural groups, therefore we do not wish to share such information freely in case the same things happen again.

We hope that you understand.

[–] starry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I understand. There are similar concerns in the tulpamancy community, where people jump into the process then neglect or abuse their tulpa. It's sad to see, but it unfortunately does happen

I ask since I happen to be interested in the topic. I'm aware of several other processes, and there are even several approaches one can take with tulpamancy! It's not an exact art, which is fascinating

(you don't have to add more here, I'm just rambling)

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago

Thanks for understanding and yeah. We would be willing to discuss this over a messenger with you. Feel free to DM us to get that set up, if you'd like to do so. No worries if not though!

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] starry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago

Sure thing!