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[-] Lotsen@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 year ago

A subreddit I was in linked their lemmy community and it was on dbzer0 so I created a account on there and called it a day.

[-] infamousbelgian@waste-of.space 5 points 1 year ago

I created it myself.

Consider this a test to see if the federation works :)

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[-] nawordar@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago

I registered during very early days, so I signed up for the instance run by devs because there wasn't much choice. Today I would choose a smaller one

[-] geo@vlemmy.net 5 points 1 year ago

I don't think it really matters, but I picked vlemmy.net because it wasn't too big. I figured that the bigger ones were staring down the barrel of a huge influx in traffic, so I wanted to avoid them.

I didn't see any evidence of the admin being shady, but also wasn't too hasty with the defederate button.

[-] guybrush@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

Idk, because why not Estonia.

[-] angstylittlecatboy@reddthat.com 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'd heard you shouldn't pick one of the largest, I explicitly didn't want a server run by Nazis, Paleolibertarians, or Marxist-Leninists, and I didn't mind the rules here.

[-] creation7758@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

It doesn't but I thought it did

[-] Kyoyeou@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

It was after the u/spez shit AMA. Wanted Beehawsomething but saw they were restrictive and I had to give a detailed reason to join them, so I didn't. Sh.itjust.works seemed like a website name I would not remember and I wouldn't be able to go too Lemmy.ml was full and we where invited to go to other places Lemmy.world was there and had a nice name, it was for me Now I discovered only 2 days ago that slrpnk.net existed, and If we were able to move instance I would move there, I vibes a lot with the ideals I discovered on Reddit, they even got me to buy plants I take very good care of

[-] ShittyKopper@lemmy.w.on-t.work 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It's never too late to just create a new account and start using it. Don't feel like you're stuck on an instance. Your old posts won't move over but that's a problem even Mastodon hasn't been able to solve yet. And unlike them there is no concept of followers in Lemmy so you're really not losing anything beyond the time of re-subscribing to all your communities.

[-] zerbey@infosec.pub 4 points 1 year ago

Bouncing between several since lemmy.world is being hammered right now, I'm sure once the dust settles things will calm down. Right now I'm on infosec.pub because it was recommended to me as a smaller server. It really doesn't matter so long as whatever you're on communicates with everyone else.

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[-] nychtelios@rlyeh.icu 4 points 1 year ago

I am hosting it lol

[-] TheSacredOne@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

Tried lemmy.world as a reddit refugee but with the performance issues they're experiencing, quickly went looking for another instance with better performance and a decent amount of extra content. Lemmy.ml is blocked at work (.ml TLD is freenom so prone to abuse) and registration is closed anyway, so decided on lemm.ee.

Far better speed, a good amount of content locally, and few/no errors at the moment.

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[-] Bill@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

Yeah it does kinda matter, which is problematic for onboarding new users. Personally:

  • I read the rules/TOS.
  • I checked the Instances page to make sure instances I wanted to access were linked and not blocked.
  • I looked for any introduction posts to see what the backend infrastructure was like.
  • I checked the username I wanted was available.

It should not be that complicated, but it also has to be unfortunately. I had to make sure all those things matched what I personally wanted. This much choice is great for heavily-invested tech nerds with free time but sucks for anyone else wanting to join in.

[-] Menagerie@pawb.social 4 points 1 year ago

I picked pawb because furries know tech really well, so I can trust the server to be fairly reliable.

[-] spamspeicher@feddit.de 4 points 1 year ago

Es ist Deutschland hier!

[-] tzutoo@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

It doesn't really matter actually, but I would prefer to stay on the one with more members as it will probably last longer than other instances

[-] voidf1sh@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

I've got accounts on 4 different instances just to see what things are like. Sometimes I want to see all sorts of posts, sometimes I want a feed of just LGBT-positive stuff, sometimes I just want to get off, different accounts on different instances for different things :)

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[-] Kuchenchen@feddit.de 4 points 1 year ago

I'm learning german so while i was looking for some german speaking communities. They're surprisingly big and keep growing.

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[-] Mavedustaine@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Like most commenters here, because it was recommended and I'm a newbie at this.

Question though, if I create another account on say lemm.ee, is there a way for me to migrate my subscribed communities?

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[-] Firipu@startrek.website 4 points 1 year ago

Made one on lemmy.world but it's crumbling under the pressure as we speak. Tried a local one, but it has like 5 users. Don't trust it to live long enough. So started using the star trek one, because star trek. Not as if you'd need any other reason

[-] Ranessin@feddit.de 4 points 1 year ago

Biggest German server and good community.

Its status on federation with problematic instances.

[-] hoodlem@hoodlem.me 3 points 1 year ago

I run my own private instance so I am in control over my own data.

Tbh, I don’t think it matters what server you choose. Lemmy.world, Lemmy.ml, and Beehaw seem to be the big ones so picking a server that federates with those would be ideal.

[-] Narwhalrus@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

It does seem like some servers have specific niches, so if you're really interested in a specific servers niche using that instance would prevent you from having to sync those communities with your instance.

I'm new, so someone correct me if I'm wrong.

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[-] digdilem@feddit.uk 3 points 1 year ago

Feddit.uk - I figure regionality has benefit in keeping loads more spread, plus it hosts some good communities and a cute name.

[-] esty@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago
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[-] ZTabs@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

I'm with the boys on lemm.ee !

[-] ilovetvshows@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Google search. I had no clue about multiple instances. Search lemmy on Google and first link was for lemmy.ml domain so that's how I am here.

[-] Seraphin@pawb.social 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Because I'm a furry. obligatory OwO

[-] Watcher@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 1 year ago

The list of blocked instances made me switch from feddit.de to the current instance I'm using.

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[-] MrGerrit@feddit.nl 3 points 1 year ago

I have a few now just to test it out. I want to use feddit.nl as my standard server, but I just haven't fully figured out how this all works.

Like for example I'm on lemmy.world and subscribe to something, that channel/sub doesn't seem to appear on feddit.nl. there can be a channel with the same name but it isn't the one I subscribed to.

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[-] moreeni@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm into general instances and also a long time user of Fediverse, so I know 10-200 user instances work best. That's why I picked the first one with not too many and not too little users (the join-lemmy page only showed 50 new users when I registered, damn)

[-] blazarious@mylem.me 3 points 1 year ago

Set up the server myself. For me, that’s part of the fediverse experience.

[-] monobot@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Others did not exist back than.

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[-] hotwarioinyourarea@slrpnk.net 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm a dirty hippy and slrpnk.net seemed like a server for other dirty hippies

[-] MouseWithBeer@iusearchlinux.fyi 3 points 1 year ago

A friend owns it and it has a funny domain. Bonus of it being smaller is that it didn't have any performance issues yesterday/today.

[-] tunetardis@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago

I read some comments that lemmy.ca was well run to the extent that it was being recommended even by non-Canadians. Being Canadian myself, that was good enough for me.

It's a friendly instance and is well-run. The admin manually approved registrations which kept them safe from the great bot invasion and is now upgrading the server and bringing on more admins.

[-] Mydispo@midwest.social 3 points 1 year ago

I’m in Kansas City so I joined https://midwest.social 😄

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