Had experience of this myself. We had a close family member die a couple of years back. He'd kept our family together when my Father nearly died. We were raised different in our family, heart on our sleeves was nothing to be ashamed of. Had a couple of male work colleagues go to my Boss to complain about my "emotional state" and that "he'd fucking lost it, needs to go home!"
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I used to be all feminism when I was younger. Now I have two kids, I realized man do a sht ton of things without being recognized. It's always that "you are the man, you are supposed to do it" kind of thing. But when it's the other way around like when I asked the ladies what about their "women duties", it's all excuse and argument. It can suck balls being a responsible man.
Men have it really hard. So hard, in fact, that people are increasingly turning towards the manosphere.
Rather than taking the terminally online Reddit mod approach of ostracizing MRA's, incels, MGTOW, red pillers, etc, we should be asking ourselves why people increasingly turn to these movements.
Andrew Tate is a symptom, not a cause of our societal ills, and that is hugely concerning. A deeply misogynistic sex trafficker should not be the role model that today's youth look up to.