Finally felt brave enough to wear my xmas gift (lemmy.world)

submitted 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) by MacedWindow@lemmy.world to c/bisexual@lemmy.world

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I got my ears pierced a while back and I've mostly worn easy to miss jewelry, but my SO got me these big dangly cat earrings for xmas and I decided to finally wear them. Still absolutely terrified to go into like a store or something but its been fun around friends and family. Its the most feminine thing I've done around people I've only ever presented very masculine to so its been kind of heartracing. No too bad reactions yet though so thats a good thing.

I know its not necessarily a bi thing to be more feminine but I've definitely avoided things like this in the past to "seem straight"

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[-] NakariLexfortaine@lemm.ee 18 points 8 months ago

Those are fucking adorable, and props to you for having the strength to wear them, even if it's just at personal events! It can be a hard step to take, especially when you're so used to presenting yourself in another way.

[-] MacedWindow@lemmy.world 6 points 8 months ago

Thank you that really means a lot!!

[-] rockerface@lemm.ee 9 points 8 months ago

...damn, maybe I should pierce my ears as a bi guy too. These look cute!

[-] MacedWindow@lemmy.world 9 points 8 months ago

You should! I hemmed and hawwed about it for years and I'm so glad I finally did.

[-] supersquirrel@sopuli.xyz 4 points 8 months ago

Hell yeah those are cool

[-] SuperSynthia@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago

They are wonderful! I like to present feminine when I'm dating a guy, or when I'm single. I only do masc if I'm dating a woman, but even then I'll get the mood to change it up :). Just be you, because you are enough <3

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