AnOceanAppears

joined 2 years ago

Cult of the Lamb's latest content release is bringing 2-player local coop

[–] AnOceanAppears@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yay, thank you! ❤️ I have a severe lack of cute dresses in my life ☺️

[–] AnOceanAppears@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Well, you look fantastic. Can I ask where the dress is from?

[–] AnOceanAppears@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Oh my gosh, sooo cute!! :3

[–] AnOceanAppears@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I love your poetry so much ❤️ Sending you teary-eyed hugs 🤗

[–] AnOceanAppears@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Haha, not sure if it's possible to definitively anything that can't be measured empirically. Glad you're in a safe place ☺️

Yeah, I don't have the best answers. What do you feel like your living as your true self is missing? Do you feel yourself making progress to that vision? What's missing?

[–] AnOceanAppears@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

That makes sense! I definitely share in your experience of anxiety that comes out of wanting to be open and expressive but also protect yourself. I'm navigating something similar and, well, I don't have a good answer right now about what to do.

Generally, for people I know, I've found that I'm a very good judge of whether or not they will accept/embrace/vibe with my gender expression or be off-put by it and I know that influences the degree to which I mask (which I'm unhappy with, but working on). For people I don't know—generally they don't care as they have their own problems to work through, but I live in a socially liberal city so there's that 😅

Nonbinary transfemme—using precise terminology for something I consider quite vague. I have a hard time calling myself a woman, but that's essentially where I'm headed. Maybe demigirl.

[–] AnOceanAppears@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 year ago (5 children)

It's okay and normal to not be 100% sure and to even change your mind entirely later. The important thing is you feel you have the agency to be whatever version of yourself feels right in the moment 💕

Yeah, it kind of sucks but there's a bunch of other fruit that's probably coming into season. I might look at that. I know that I've been seeing more honey mangoes in the grocery stores. Apples tend to be best around October, unfortunately.

Chase in-season foods; your palate will thank you ☺️

[–] AnOceanAppears@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

We're out of apple season in Washington (typically it's over by December) so dunno where you're getting your, but probably it's a new source.

I think bumblebee has a "find a friend" app to make those platonic connections.

 

Today was the start of open enrollment at my company (US) for insurance and it has reminded me just how painful it is to think about what a scam health insurance is in my country.

I had heard that if you want something done right, do it yourself. So, to that end...

Health Insurance Cooperatives.

Is that a thing?

I live in the Pacific Northwest and I would think that if anywhere had such a thing it would be here (I'm biased, of course).

I'd love to hear people's thoughts and experiences on the subject.

Anything to avoid forking over my (or me employer's) money to the medical-industrial complex to make some assholes rich.

❤️

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