[-] AnalogyAddict@beehaw.org 11 points 9 months ago

Besides all the reasons other commenters have said, it's because mental health is a pseudo-social phenomenon among teens.

Having a mental illness gets them attention, online and in person. I have two teens, and even though both have diagnosed mental illness due to trauma from their other parent, they still seek, discuss, and revel in self-diagnoses.

If a friend claims to have something, they rush to the internet to do "research," and begin exhibiting "symptoms." Same thing is true with other labels.

We have a dearth of parenting, due to needing two incomes to make a household run. Adult attention is scarce, so teens make up for it with wild claims and garnering attention from other teens. The internet makes it easy to model behaviors. So yes, there is an increase in mental illness, but not the kinds, nor for the reasons the internet would have us believe.

[-] AnalogyAddict@beehaw.org 10 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

A grumpy old person because I'm too exhausted to plan a costume, and I don't know how to have fun.

[-] AnalogyAddict@beehaw.org 10 points 11 months ago

Wouldn't that be all Kraft Singles ever?

[-] AnalogyAddict@beehaw.org 8 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I find it unattractive to use logical fallacies like ad hominem to try to attack someone because of feeling threatened. But I do find it amusing when such fallacies fall so short. I don't care if I'm attractive to you. I have much more important things to be. Being unattractive to people who would find AI attractive is something I'm rather proud of. It means I'm doing something right.

Fortunately for one of us, insecurity actually isn't one of my faults, or my feelings would be almost as hurt as yours seem to be.

[-] AnalogyAddict@beehaw.org 11 points 11 months ago

I think it sounds more like a bunch of men feeling threatened by the fact that women find being attracted to imaginary women a pretty big turn off.

[-] AnalogyAddict@beehaw.org 8 points 11 months ago

It would be nice if men learned that attraction doesn't have to mean objectification, and that real women are way better than a cobbled together Frankenstein "perfect" monster woman.

I mean, 99% of these men would have zero chance with a woman half as attractive. They seriously need to start figuring out what WOMEN find attractive instead of wasting their time with empty fantasies if they want to get a real relationship someday.

[-] AnalogyAddict@beehaw.org 13 points 11 months ago

For some of us, the joy of good food is the only reliable joy we have.

[-] AnalogyAddict@beehaw.org 40 points 11 months ago

I mean, the #1 reason is because it makes it taste like banana.

[-] AnalogyAddict@beehaw.org 8 points 1 year ago

Definitely caramelized onions and roasted garlic. Especially on anything red meat or potato. Totally worth the time.

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So I had a situation at work where the project lead refused to communicate with me, and instead went to my boss about everything. I thought it was me, but my (male) boss suggested it might be misogyny. (My work is male dominated. I'm the only female lead of my role in the company.)

I occasionally run into situations where someone, man or woman, not only dislikes me but does everything they can to destroy me. I figure I'm just offputting, but I've had unrelated comments from others that it is because I'm direct and opinionated, and not afraid to defend my opinion.

I'm having a hard time mentally processing the opposing concepts that I'm a bad person, and that is why I make this kind of enemy, and that there's nothing wrong with me, it's their problem.

For the record, I have all kinds of self- deprecating behaviors to try to soften my opinions, and they generally work. Just sometimes, there is no way for me to have a perspective and not be offensive to someone.

I'd welcome your experiences and thoughts, if any.

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