We could address that more, but we're going to come back to "Its not the 60s". What you're saying is not substantially different from saying the Elves had it better before they left Valinor. Probably true but my friend, it doesn't really apply. I think you may be succumbing to nostalgia too, one of my favorite youtube creators once described nostalgia as a form of depression and I'm not sure I've ever felt a deeper kinship with some random dude online.
Even then, I feel like you've vastly misrepresented the 60s, what do you even think hippie culture was? That was a dedication to changing yourself and the way you lived DRASTICALLY, it was nothing but change and the community was built to try to thrive on an ever shifting background. It was defined almost entirely by all the things you said you don't want to do.
The world is not going to change to your liking because you're pursuing a lifestyle dedicated to avoiding that outcome and you aren't going to be happy anywhere until you change that. The problem isn't the world, it is your approach to it and the fact that you're letting depression control your life instead of trying to make rational decisions.
I don't think anyone ever said anything about it being convenient. I'm pretty sure I specifically said it was bad just not as bad as it could be.