[-] Droggl 2 points 1 year ago

"Diese Leute wollen keinen Dialog". Wer sind jetzt genau "diese Leute"?

Bei den Schwurblern mit denen ich bisher gesprochen hab war das recht anders. Die waren hauptsächlich frustriert direkt mit Faschos in eine Ecke gestellt zu werden und haben sich über Austausch tendenziell gefreut. Man muss halt nur verstehen, dass sie schwurbeln weil ihnen das das Gefühl gibt wichtig zu sein, daher fühlen sie sich leicht persönlich angegriffen, wenn man Sie direkt mit der Irrigkeit ihrer Aussagen konfrontiert.

Wer weiss, vielleicht gibt es an Ende doch nicht nur genau 2 Sorten Menschen? Nur so eine wilde Theorie. Aber das Konzept scheint heutzutage sehr schwer zu vermitteln zu sein. Es ist leichter die Welt in richtig und falsch einzuteilen und alles falsche anzugreifen.

Ja, Faschismus keine Bühne geben, aber Nein, nicht alles, was man nicht mag in eine Schublade stecken.

[-] Droggl 2 points 1 year ago

Sounds to me like you feel stressed and perhaps angry because you'd like there to be clarity of who has authority over what/whom.

As has been pointed out in a different reply, try to not think in terms of whos right and wrong but try to deescalate the emotional tension I dont know "emotional intelligence" but in "nonviolent communication" it goes along these lines:

  1. Listen. Try to understand what she wants how she is feeling. IMPORTANT: A feeling is not an accusation: Eg "hurt" implies someone hurt you. Dont feel accused in such a case, you just havn managed to find the right feeling yet. Dont tell her, her feeling is wrong, just find the right one (accusations never help)
  2. Try to find out why she is feeling this way, whats her underlying need? IMPORTANT: A need does not depend on some specific person. If she says "I need you to...", continue digging. Again, no accusations, that would cause only problems, you try to understand something here.
  3. Reflect and refine your understanding, you can make guesses if you make clear your asking to understand. Eg "it seems to me you are really enthusiastic right now. I take it, project X is very important to you and you want to make sure everyone pulls in the right direction?" Dont fake it, you really have to try and understand her, you dont have to agree.
  4. Rinse and repeat until she feels understood (usually easy to notice).
  5. Turn it around: Tell her your feelings and needs behind it. Same rules apl ply.

This is an ultra condensed version, I recommend watching: https://youtu.be/l7TONauJGfc

[-] Droggl 2 points 1 year ago

*learned what POV means back in the day when povray was the best thing since sliced bread for rendering 3d stuff

[-] Droggl 3 points 1 year ago

Bodenpersonal grad mal 2000 Jahre unbeaufsichtigt und schon fast fertig damit den Planeten zu zerstören

[-] Droggl 3 points 1 year ago

That's it, I'll just give up now. All hail future AI overlords!

[-] Droggl 3 points 1 year ago

Having a dog (esp puppy) does wonders in this regard.

[-] Droggl 2 points 1 year ago

Yay, more bad programmers, exactly what we need! /s

[-] Droggl 2 points 1 year ago

I dont remember the numbers but iirc it was covered by one of the validation datasets and GPT 4 did quite well on it

[-] Droggl 2 points 1 year ago

The giant Turtle

[-] Droggl 2 points 1 year ago

Purist/Purist hier, Früchtetee ist Anarchie für mich

[-] Droggl 2 points 1 year ago

Nicht über-denken, wenns von Herzen kommt, ist es schon perfekt.

[-] Droggl 3 points 1 year ago

Bei mir wars ein 10eur ring aus dem C&A, nach dem Antrag sind wir dann zusammen zum Juwelier.

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