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My husband got a packer and the first think he had to do was come and smack me with it.

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by SamanthaLie@lemmy.world to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

I'm wondering what the group age range looks like. I'm 35 for example.

No obligations if you dont want to post you age. I wish lemmy had post so it would be a little more anonymous.

[-] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

^ this person gets it

[-] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)
[-] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Well if they didn't I wouldn't have gotten then surgery.

[-] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Oh trust me I am at the point where the swelling has gone down and the sutures are all most gone and its amazing how normal it looks. In a year you wouldn't even know. I will say pictures on line are usually of people early on and is a little miss leading of how everything will look in the end.

[-] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Interesting our colors are different purple was the first one for me and orange is the last.

[-] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Oh the first few weeks was nothing but pain and pressure. But it gets better.

[-] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

I had my surgery September 21st. So sadly I am actually unable to preform at the moment. But do I want. I wasn't expecting this. Funny I went way longer before surgery without sex so its not like I'm just frustrated because I can't.

[-] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago

Sorry my phone corrected meh to men. I am MTF and had bottom surgery about a month ago. I am still 2 months away from actually having being able to have sex. But I have noticed my sex drive has increase and I actually think about it now where as before surgery I really didn't care for sex or think much of it.

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by SamanthaLie@lemmy.world to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

This might because I have more confidence in myself now and the act is now being done using the correct parts. I'm just surprised how much my needs have increase because before surgery I was meh to sex.

[-] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

What physical therapy are you doing?

[-] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

You are right I should ha e given more information. I went ahead and update the main text but so you have it. Surgery: Penile Inversion Vaginoplasty, Surgeon: Dr. Gerhard Mundinger. I had one virtual appointment in February of this year and in that appointment they helped me find therapist that I cab get with for letters, and place near me to get hair removal. After I got the letters with in about a month (I have been transitioning for years so I had more then enough medial history and information needed that it didn't take them long to sign the letters). I then spend the next 5 months getting hair removal. Partly though this process my surgery date was set. I then had a physical appointment with my surgeon a week before the surgery. Then I just showed up at the hospital 3 hours before the surgery and from there I just let them do what they needed and slept a lot until I was released 48 hours later. Then I spent a week pretty mush in bed. I have 3 post op appointments with my surgeon. The first one was last week and that's when I started the process of dilation. Which to be fair has been the most awkward and frustrating part so far. I have my fiancé helping me and honestly without them this whole last week and half would have been near impossible. So above all you need a care taker you can depend on and will be willing to do basically everything for you.

[-] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

I got Penile Inversion Vaginoplasty. I got amazing depth with mine. (This is not always the case and if I don't keep up on dilation then I will lose it). I'm getting married to a man and in my case I have more depth then needed but plan on making sure I don't lose any

[-] SamanthaLie@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

The realization that I actually got surgery. Most of my life the idea this would happen was just a dream. It was financially out of reach and I really didn't know how to abtained the letters I needed. It was not until the beginning of this year that everything just came together and I was able to figure everything out.

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by SamanthaLie@lemmy.world to c/transgender@lemmy.ml

I am a week and half from having bottom surgery. The surgery went perfectly and the healing is going way better then my doctor normal see. I just wanted to come on here and say ladies thinking about surgery feel free to ask your questions?

Surgery: Penile Inversion Vaginoplasty

Surgeon: Dr. Gerhard Mundinger

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