[-] Schlemmy@lemmy.ml 35 points 1 month ago

Nope, it's not weird. It's not common either. You will get made fun of when anyone finds out.

[-] Schlemmy@lemmy.ml 104 points 1 month ago

The 'hand me your unlocked phone' has worked for me on several occasions.

[-] Schlemmy@lemmy.ml 37 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I'm not saying it's social media, but it's social media. You're connected to negativity 24/7. The algorithm feeds on negativity because that is what makes us stay on there.

I've got something to change your thinking. At least it helped me 17 years ago.

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I don't want to dismiss the facts. There are terrible things going on but overall we're living our best lives at the same time.

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And hey! I'm 43 too. You have a whole life ahead of you. You still can go in any direction you want to go in.

[-] Schlemmy@lemmy.ml 51 points 6 months ago

Ah yes, the land of the free

[-] Schlemmy@lemmy.ml 55 points 10 months ago

I can change her

[-] Schlemmy@lemmy.ml 68 points 11 months ago

Change your diet. You lose weight in the kitchen.

Grant yourself a cheat day from time to time but stay on your diet the first months. I've been on a diet for about three years now and I can have a cheat day once a week.

Expect it to be something you have to commit to the rest of your life but believe me, it gets easier. Don't go on a crash diet but do something that you realistically can maintain.

Then start with some moderate exercise. Just walking more often is a great way to lose weight.

You can't target zones to lose weight but you can tone zones by building muscle. Bigger shoulders lake your waist look thinner.

Stick to it. You'll feel better overall. Good luck.

[-] Schlemmy@lemmy.ml 60 points 11 months ago

Are you kidding me? They used WhatsApp for intelligence communication?

[-] Schlemmy@lemmy.ml 75 points 11 months ago

Yes, let's exempt them from proper education. That'll solve the problem.

[-] Schlemmy@lemmy.ml 119 points 11 months ago

I'm addicted to Streetcomplete. I'm 20.000+ edits in. I make about 100 with ease on my commute to work.

[-] Schlemmy@lemmy.ml 43 points 11 months ago

Yes, I've been with a girl like that for 2 years. My friends told me that I could get better looking women and found 8t strange I hooked up with her but my god, she got me going. Also, she was a nymphomaniac. That's the main reason we broke up. Having sex twice a day takes the fun out of it if you're not a sex addict. I encountered her a few weeks ago. She gained a lot of weight but I still wanted to screw her badly. It's totally weird.

[-] Schlemmy@lemmy.ml 34 points 11 months ago

Most of the children around here get their first smartphone at the age of 12. At school they get thaught about the risks of the internet and social media but parents are also asked to guide their children on this path.

Before that age most schilderen have access to a tablet and the advice there is to only let it be used in the places where you as a parent are present. Not in their room for example. You don't have to hover above them but just being near and checking the tablet every few days or weeks will do.

Same with gaming consoles or computers. We have them in our living room so our children only use them in those spaces where other people can be around. That way we can hear their conversations and intervene when their are getting too loud or make sure they use proper language.

No real software limitations apart from adblockers. I did block a whole list of porn sites when they were younger than 12 bit after that age I took away all the restrictions on my router. We had a conversation on the impact and consequences of porn but they will be curious and will find or encounter porn eventually.

So, I would say. Teach and supervice your child and make sure they have the appropriate age for or are to be trusted with their devices.

[-] Schlemmy@lemmy.ml 35 points 1 year ago

Next up. Improve your wireless network with cheese.

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