[-] ValenThyme@reddthat.com 2 points 1 day ago

oooh cloves in the red onions? i will definitely try that ty

[-] ValenThyme@reddthat.com 2 points 1 day ago

i didn't know we get a day!!

[-] ValenThyme@reddthat.com 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

well i imagine she probably was being hyperbolic and then i amplified that? i don't believe she kept count. She changed the way she dresses and behaves because of unwanted attention from men at work and in public though and generally feels annoyed that she had to learn to be less friendly to be left alone that way.

i'm inheriting a ton of lovely femme clothes from her and they are all very lightly used vs the masculine stuff she wears to work and that was her explanation why when I asked why she didn't wear the pretty stuff more.

[-] ValenThyme@reddthat.com 15 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Oh I get that feel too.

My wife told that she stopped complimenting boys when the 100th one in a row thought it meant she wanted to make out. Whereas women will take the compliment and not make it weird!

Maybe your hair just looked nice and you look like a person who can take a compliment!

[-] ValenThyme@reddthat.com 16 points 3 days ago

if you're very lazy like me and like to enjoy other folks playlists I found out if you just put 'wlw' into spotify search there are a lot of super sapphic playlists already made by those blessed unlazies

[-] ValenThyme@reddthat.com 20 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I love trains even though Amtrak is the limit of my experience. When i ran away from home at 16 I took trains all the way from the east coast to Portland. It took 48 hours on the Empire Builder out of Chicago. A liberating, magical journey for me from hell to heaven.

Everyone on the train was super nice to me, I ate with strangers in the dining car and compared to crossing country on Greyhound it was extremely deluxe.

There is a train on the west coast called the Coast Starlight and it has a magnificent observation car with huge padded chairs that swivel to face outwards, and the walls are almost all clear. If you're lucky you can sit on the ocean side and just chill out to the most breathtaking scenery for hours.

up with trains!

[-] ValenThyme@reddthat.com 10 points 3 days ago

๐Ÿ‘€ snagged

[-] ValenThyme@reddthat.com 22 points 3 days ago

thank you all for posting a bunch so i can do upvotes instead of laundry please keep it up i don't want to do laundry yet

[-] ValenThyme@reddthat.com 14 points 3 days ago

sounds like you ARE doing a lot of these things already! Keep up the momentum i'm proud of you!

What's #1 on your destination list?

[-] ValenThyme@reddthat.com 22 points 3 days ago

I love epilation. I'm so awful at shaving but epilating is my JAM i'm so goddamn smooth now everywhere and it's a euphoria machine.

[-] ValenThyme@reddthat.com 25 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I love you all. Be trans be gay be yourself be happy :)

I should make a hexbear account

edit: I applied for bearitizenship paws crossed

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