[-] bishbosh@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago

What gross things to say.

I didn’t comment about her body in that comment.

Ah so when you replied to someone commenting on her body and face saying that you would "still" have sex with her after drinking, that was a comment on her deep and rich personality? Just because you didn't literally mention her body in it doesn't make the comment not about her body, and I think you know that.

with caveats ... in front of the right crowd.

Maybe a public forum with a person you don't know is not the right place to make those.

I’ve been to a lot of kink parties and drag shows.

No one is impressed by "I have a black friend", stop using is as justification.

Cis-het peeps don’t have a monopoly on catty coments.

No one said they did, and if you want to get into the weeds of this, folks that are also subjugated under patriarchy share a kinship and an understanding of the contexts and ways 'catty' comments should be made. Maybe going to a couple drag shows doesn't give you the proper context to understand what justifies a 'catty' comment. Maybe a random internet commenter saying they "still would" doesn't come off as a clever fun sassy razzing all the drag queens do. Maybe instead it sounds like basement dweller saying "she's not hot like the chicks I jerk off to, but I guess I would still fuck her".

I did make a deleted comment referring to her Botox or plastic surgery and that I considered it a red flag. I find uncanny valley plastic surgery profoundly unattractive. I don’t remember exactly what I said. It was flippant and arguably objectification.

Wow, I am so proud of you for realizing how wildly disgusting this comment is before leaving it up for too long. I would suggest you grow as a person and have that realization when you think it, and guide yourself away from being a creep.

From my view, the shirt with a funny sexual statement invites other sexual statements.

It doesn't. Stop.

[-] bishbosh@lemm.ee 5 points 1 day ago

Which one was yours? Looks like the mods agree it wasn't conducive to the environment they want.

Would you proudly tell the women and enbies in your life about the comment on a woman's body you left on the internet? And ultimately even if, in the context of a friendship, and the folks you associate with, this would be taken well, don't you think it's worth listening when people say you're being creepy and off putting?

[-] bishbosh@lemm.ee 18 points 4 days ago

Google has unveiled a new chip which it claims takes five minutes to solve a problem that would currently take the world's fastest super computers ten septillion – or 10,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000 years – to complete.

Its director, Michael Cuthbert, told the BBC he was wary of language that fuelled the "hype cycle" and thought Willow was more a "milestone rather than a breakthrough".

Frustrating that the article seems to pretty heavily focus on pop sci talk about quantum rather than actual point of what they've made. The actual news being methods that "present device performance that, if scaled, could realize the operational requirements of large scale fault-tolerant quantum algorithms."

[-] bishbosh@lemm.ee 11 points 3 weeks ago

I piss on my flowers every day, it's basically the same thing.

[-] bishbosh@lemm.ee 25 points 3 weeks ago
[-] bishbosh@lemm.ee 28 points 1 month ago

No way, the rabble might ask for someone that doesn't allow Nancy Pelosi to openly do insider trading.

[-] bishbosh@lemm.ee 13 points 1 month ago

If we are at the point of solution by revolution, I think our aims should be higher than just first past the post...

[-] bishbosh@lemm.ee 16 points 1 month ago

It wasn't deciding factor at all. People get far too internet poisoned and fail to realize how the median voter is actually motivated in this country. Foreign policy is nearly irrelevant to most voters.

If there is any validity to the idea that Harris' position on gaza tanked the campaign it's in the motivated active base lost interest in giving their time, sweat, and energy to putting boots on the ground for someone that has made every promise to continue bombing children.

[-] bishbosh@lemm.ee 15 points 1 month ago

Ernie no!!

The wealthy aren't a protected class, it's not a hate crime.

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[-] bishbosh@lemm.ee 19 points 2 months ago

Why defend an ethnostate?

[-] bishbosh@lemm.ee 10 points 2 months ago

In 1948 Britain gave away land they had colonized to another colonial project.

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