I used to stick with Discord for most of my group gaming until they changed a bunch of policies and the overall vibe shifted. Now, I'm mostly on Matrix for chat and dice bots and sometimes set up Jitsi if we need voice. The flexibility is nice and feels less corporate, like you said. IRC is solid if you don't mind something simple, and I've even tried hosting with Galene, which isn’t too tough once you get the basics down.
I used to stick with Discord for most of my group gaming until they changed a bunch of policies and the overall vibe shifted. Now, I'm mostly on Matrix for chat and dice bots and sometimes set up Jitsi if we need voice. The flexibility is nice and feels less corporate, like you said. IRC is solid if you don't mind something simple, and I've even tried hosting with Galene, which isn’t too tough once you get the basics down.