lazyneet

Good girl

Clear them out and take a nap

One or two. I thought about this as a metric in my early 20s, but now I prefer to meet in a public place for lunch or coffee or something, then sex can follow or not. It's a routine that affords more safety than a random hookup at a bar or an app or something.

My breasts are too small for a proper titfuck, but it's less impersonal than a handjob. It depends on how much you care for someone. Is it a quickie that you just want to end, or is it love?

Internalized homophobia and pursuit of relationships with "mommy" types

Marry me

I'm not good at it actually. If I push my voicebox up in my throat I can produce the right sounds, but when I take my hand away it tends to drop

It sounds like things are going extremely well for you. I'm glad ☺️

13 months on HRT and I haven't made a list, but I'll try.

• I am more appealing to other trans and trans-adjacent people of all stripes
• Breasts, nicer skin, etc.
• I feel calmer and rarely get angry
• I was called ma'am by a Subway employee
• I can take cis-passing selfies
• I'm much better at empathizing with women's issues
• I've almost finished my BA and have worked with transmen on a couple of projects, and they seemed to be comfortable with me
• I now look good in clothes I wouldn't wear before
• I now understand more of the biomechanics of speech and can manage a girl voice with a little effort

I want to lay down beside you and take you in my mouth

I've been meaning to get to the bottom of a lot of this stuff, so thanks for your insight. I feel safe using a prescription vial for 2 months, assuming an increasing contamination risk with repeated draws. A narrower needle can indeed draw from a cored vial, but I'd at least use 2 of those since the vial blunts the tip enough for me to feel it. (Dropped my draw needle once and had to do without.)

With DIY vials, are we talking estradiol valerate? There are other estrogens, but I've found what I'm on to be quite effective. I'm also not sure if it's safe to discuss the details here after hearing about some drama in 2024 due to the usual bs.

I am not a medical professional.

If you want to DIY, get some syringes and needles (large gauge for draw, like 18g, narrow gauge for injection, like 23g). Investigate recommended monotherapy doses for what you've got. WPATH documents can be helpful. Get blood draws after the first 3 months for testosterone and whatever you've got (let's say estradiol) to make sure your levels are in the recommended ranges, and adjust dosage accordingly. (edit: In case I have to clarify, do not draw your own blood.)

If you're more cautious, as I am, set up an appointment with a doctor or a facility that does gender-affirming care, which will depend on what country you live in. I seriously considered DIY, but I eventually found out about the informed consent process, which is applicable in the US. Without that, your country may require counseling for some period of time before your counselor or doctor refers you.

I'm circumcised and I've never had the issue you describe, but I'm also on HRT and don't get spontaneous erections anyways. The thing about anal as compared to vaginal is that the anatomy is very different and requires more force. Your issue will have more to do with tightness than angle, though sideways and one-leg-up are generally easier positions. Make sure to buy lube, preferably water-based.