moonlight

joined 11 months ago
[–] moonlight@fedia.io 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Then go talk to AI and stop spamming us.

[–] moonlight@fedia.io 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

???

Why are you replying if you won't even read what I'm writing?

[–] moonlight@fedia.io 4 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Seriously? Maybe this isn't a good place for you if you're going to behave this way.

[–] moonlight@fedia.io 54 points 1 day ago (18 children)

If all you want is a one night stand, this kinda does sound like you're leading her on. It feels a bit dishonest to be talking with her for an extended period of time and getting to know her if you just want a hookup, not even a friendship.

In this situation all you can be is honest, but in the future I'd take a look at how you're interacting with people.

[–] moonlight@fedia.io 3 points 1 day ago (6 children)

It's okay, really. Many people here just really dislike AI, and see it as low effort slop, which diminishes the human element that's important to the fediverse. I wouldn't take the downvotes personally, they're not really directed at you.

I think you should just post the comments you wrote, before having ChatGPT rewrite it! If you're really self conscious about your English you could put a disclaimer in your comment, but I don't think that's necessary.

[–] moonlight@fedia.io 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

adhd/autism, only officially diagnosed with the former, though. Although audhd is really its own distinct neurotype. I think one of the biggest things for me in this case is the audio processing issue (which makes it difficult to interact with people in loud environments. loud bars are bad enough, I don't think I could handle clubs)

What about you?

[–] moonlight@fedia.io 3 points 2 days ago

Also, most trans women are specifically blocking testosterone, and often have significantly lower levels than cis women.

[–] moonlight@fedia.io 3 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I haven't either, despite being in a city and my 20s. I think plenty of young people still go clubbing, but I think I'm too anxious/neurodivergent for it.

I see the appeal, but I get overwhelmed by enviroments like that unless I'm very drunk (which I want to do less), I can't dance, and I don't know how to talk to people :(

I'll occasionally go to a bar with friends, but it has to be a quieter spot with somewhere we can all sit and hang out.

[–] moonlight@fedia.io 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

What sort of horror stories?

[–] moonlight@fedia.io 17 points 3 days ago (5 children)

You're getting a lot of good answers, but the most likely reason is just that your skin is dry. Try taking cooler showers, and put coconut oil or similar on your skin after the shower.

[–] moonlight@fedia.io 25 points 5 days ago (2 children)

wait wait wait how do i kiss them.....? 😳👉👈

[–] moonlight@fedia.io 12 points 5 days ago

Yep, if your search engine of choice supports it, using 'before:2022' yields drastically better search results.

 

Like, it can't be a real person, right? Has anyone tried following the links? I'm curious how they're scamming people. It just seems like anyone getting the same message 5 times won't fall for being catfished, so I don't understand what their strategy is.

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