I've always referred to Reddit and other forum type sites as "anti-social media".
Nobody's here to gain clout. Nobody's here to get more followers. Nobody's here to try and be famous.
We're here because it's anonymous (if you want it to be), and because it's fundamentally different from mainstream social networking sites.
This is my problem. I want to use Lemmy over Reddit, but there's just not a diverse enough population to find the content I want about niche topics. Bundle that with the same 3-4 "tech company bad", "CEO bad", or "USA bad" topics on the top of my feed every day and it's pushing me away from Lemmy tbh. I signed back into my Reddit account for the first time in months yesterday.